tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37927458054910940502024-03-13T11:11:59.612-07:00VESICA PISCIS--Cancer Self-Healing MethodVESICA PISCIS.INFO OFFERS PSYCHO-SPIRITUAL SKILLS FOR HEALING YOURSELF OF CANCER. TELEPHONE GUIDANCE IS ALSO AVAILABLE.Website Owner: Brenda H. Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00850337192581910303noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792745805491094050.post-73829565572003865002018-07-20T06:11:00.004-07:002022-07-13T08:53:14.236-07:00The Spiritual side of Cancer<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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<u><b>The Spiritual Side of Cancer </b></u></div>
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<b>Chapter One: The Solution is Within the Problem</b></div>
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<i>Finding The Solution To Cancer Through Art-Making</i></div>
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I see two spiritual sides to cancer: one is personal and the other is collective. Here is a one element concerning the personal side that worked for me in terms of healing from cancer and many other challenges..</div>
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First of all, knowing that I am an eternal being, I know that any darkness in my life contains within it the light. The solution to any problem is within the problem. That’s hard to describe in more words because words are so left brained and so inadequate to indicate truths. So at times, when I’m just using my left brain I can’t comprehend those words—“the solution is within the problem.” <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>However, when I am in my right brain—functioning from there, I am connecting with my Inner Being—my Higher Mind and Self. That part of me knows what that means—“the solution is within the problem”—and how to access and use it.</div>
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So to access a fuller understanding of those words as relates to cancer I can do things that will trigger a shift to the right hemisphere of the brain—thereby giving me better access to Higher Wisdom. One of the best ways, for me to do this is to make art. When I say this to others the frequent response is—“Oh I couldn’t do that. I can’t draw a straight line.” And if I say, “Everyone can make art,” I get dubious looks or even angry denial “No! I cannot!”</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">So if you can't draw a straight line--make a scribble! Make it ugly. Allow it to express your feelings. Use any medium: paint, pencil, charcoal, pastels, ink, magic marker. Take a fat black magic marker and scribble your feelings about having this illness.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjU637y2hJeDDYmyoVdtgkm8MIrICGWnBLPvCtuH9mx93x8xPf4nm02jmwp22_TlkgkziKXQTE87fAG94we8CzxXBP1d6_7ZaW1shYd2HhCilJ1wICPrID5LNBGZ2zPPSpqLtOpQMg34XVrw2zPwxg7u9g5PcT5xsYeeq0wuu_qi3KzFjaxqdhXU2zatg/s1600/UGLY%20ART%2020181115_201149.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1200" data-original-width="1600" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjU637y2hJeDDYmyoVdtgkm8MIrICGWnBLPvCtuH9mx93x8xPf4nm02jmwp22_TlkgkziKXQTE87fAG94we8CzxXBP1d6_7ZaW1shYd2HhCilJ1wICPrID5LNBGZ2zPPSpqLtOpQMg34XVrw2zPwxg7u9g5PcT5xsYeeq0wuu_qi3KzFjaxqdhXU2zatg/s320/UGLY%20ART%2020181115_201149.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><br /></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal">So, anyone can make "art." However, the problem here is that the person hearing those words—“You can make art,” associates art with pictures and sculptures in museums and galleries. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They might recall getting D’s in art in grammar school. Or they might even recall making art as a child, and having their art compared with another’s art, or criticized or laughed at. After that they learned to compare their own to others—and always to the diminution of their own art. Then they stopped trying. Very sad.</div>
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So there may be a lot of old false programming of beliefs around art-making to get over. But every child knows how to play with paint or clay (or found objects, stones, fabric etc.) and to like what they create—without looking at anyone else’s, or listening to a teacher (or inner critic) who tries to disparage or correct them.</div>
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<div class="MsoNormal"> I highly recommend that people forget all they think they know about art, art-making and artists and just allow it to be playing with color and form. Get some paints and paper --card or cover stock is nice. And get some magic markers or a box of children’s water colors or poster paint, and just start playing with it. If you use paper with watercolor, you might like to tape it to the table or a clipboard with masking tape first. Or better yet—buy some good water color paper.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Then shut off the left brain critic and judge and just have at it. I suggest that people just do, just enjoy as a child does, and shut the critic out. Make a mess deliberately if you like—and then love it. Be proud of it. Do it again and again. Soon the process will shift you to the right brain and when done with your art, you can, from there, ask your Inner Being, your wise Self, why you have cancer and what the solution is. Apply the answer. Write down the answer in a journal; and go on making art day after day-- just for fun.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">Thus art-making can put you in a right brain state, and from there you can more easily see how... </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><b><i><u>the solution is within the problem. </u></i></b></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">If you need more clarification try this: make a line drawing of this Vesica Piscis symbol:</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEicJSueWeOk7kVxCCr6vCamwYkqAyzuKy9m1EQniRYa3MkCtkQAJjjlkkbJ2xPbopODvrXGN32ui4hn1jiYR0pV5ZTgMmlv5BxgQccoXNT-GzrLLYDpUWVfwgBFK6UftheLkGMn_Q_mIj62_aw0ErHU2oipVN0_LGfA-BhTL829ASyHXEo189xOue684Q/s320/BLUE%20VESICA%20PISCIS.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="320" data-original-width="302" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEicJSueWeOk7kVxCCr6vCamwYkqAyzuKy9m1EQniRYa3MkCtkQAJjjlkkbJ2xPbopODvrXGN32ui4hn1jiYR0pV5ZTgMmlv5BxgQccoXNT-GzrLLYDpUWVfwgBFK6UftheLkGMn_Q_mIj62_aw0ErHU2oipVN0_LGfA-BhTL829ASyHXEo189xOue684Q/s1600/BLUE%20VESICA%20PISCIS.jpg" width="302" /></a></div><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div>
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Then imagine that the large outer circle is your Divine Self, Your Inner Being, Your Higher Self -- whatever you like to call your vast Self. Imagine that the almond shape in the center (called The Mandorla) is the solution. Imigine that one of the smaller circles is healthy you and the other is sick you. The almond shape suggests that there is a lowest common denominator between the two you's. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">For example, lets say you have breast cancer. You should think about what the breasts stand for , symbolically...Nurturing? Let's call it nurturing. So healthy you likes to nurture others ...AND YOUR SELF.<u> But the unhealthy you has been taught to forget herself and just nurture others!</u> So the center represents nurturing balanced between self and other. But having this illness tells you you are out of balance. So now draw the Vesica Piscis symbol again, but make the inner circles represent how much you nurture yourself and how much you nurture others. The "others" circle will be larger.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">Now study these two out of balance circles and write inside of each what you do in the way of nurturing -- yourself and others. Are they in balance? And the balance may change from day to day. One day you might feel like just nurturing yourself-- for one day, one month, one year, one lifetime! You choose.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">Your Inner Child is an excellent source of truth--true feelings. So ask your inner child for guidance through out this exercise. And trust her. She is the part of you that is mostly closely connected to your Inner Being--that most wise part of yourself. Her feelings are your truest feelings. We have culturally inculcated feelings too, but set those aside for now. Examine them later for Truth according to your Inner Child. Her feelings are messages from your Inner Being. You can absolutely trust them.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">So now can you see that the solution is within the problem? The problem, in this case was being out of balance around the issue of nurturing. Your cultural beliefs were in conflict with your True Knowing, which comes from your Inner Being via your Inner Child. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">The final step is to act on your new beliefs and understanding about "nurturing." You could start cutting back or even eliminating all the places in your life where you are doing too much for others. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">I had breast cancer and was extremely out of balance around the issue of nurturing. I was always giving and trying to get rid of free floating guilt by over-giving. It wasn't working. It was just creating justifiable resentment in my Inner Child. And I ended up eliminating ALL of the things I was doing for others, except for raising my two small children. I stopped working and went on welfare for 2.5 years. It was so healing! The mass in my breast disappeared within days of my revelation, and has never returned. I was 28 then. I am 77 now.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">It was soon after my revelation that I miraculously was able to move to a beautiful new home in the country, that cost only $500 a month. And I discovered a federal program that would pay even that, since I had no income. I began painting a great deal, ( I painted the polar bear at the top of this page to express my ferocious protectiveness around my new spiritual understanding, since most people did not understand it and would deride it.) I also began writing. I spent a great deal of time in Nature and began to have truly magical events happen in that developing relationship. It took a few years to really work my healing revelation into my whole life, but as I did, I became healthier and healthier. The basic issue was </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;">EMOTIONAL HONESTY WITH MYSELF AND OTHERS. Both were done kindly.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">Eventually I grew to have perfect health. At 77 I use no medicines--either conventional or alternative--and I use no doctors or hospitals or even alternative healers. If I get a slight symptom of illness I heal my self using the Vesica Piscis Method. That's all I need. I nip it in the bud, and never get sick.</div>
Website Owner: Brenda H. Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00850337192581910303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792745805491094050.post-88297187534521424952018-06-25T07:36:00.000-07:002018-06-25T09:42:38.494-07:00MARRIAGE--CAUSE OF CANCER?<br />
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June 25, 2018<br />
I wrote the letter below to my grandchildren who are 18 and 21. It was to clarify some blunt advice I had given them about getting married--as in DON'T! My daughter and my 18 yr old grandchild were over for tea, to help me celebrate my 73rd birthday, yesterday and we discussed it.<br />
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Then this morning I awoke with the knowing that marriage --as it exists in our current Western (now world wide) paradigm-- can be very cancer causing.<br />
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Most marriage vows and expectations of marriage cause people to become emotionally dishonest, which distances them from their Divine Inner Being. And that is <u><b><i>very </i></b></u>dangerous--the most dangerous thing one can ever do. Our emotions come from our Inner Being who is the source of our life! So when we squelch them we pinch ourselves off not only from good communication with our Inner Being--the center of our existence--but also from the source of the energy that gives us life!<br />
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So as we adopt limiting beliefs--such as embedded in many marriage vows--we diminish our relationship with our Inner Being who is God and who is Truth. As the truth begins to dawn on the newly weds they begin to lie to themselves and each other. I recall that for the first two years of my own first marriage I told myself we were the happiest couple I knew. NOT! We were both very unhappy and were covering it up to ourselves, each other and the world. On the outside we looked like the perfect couple.<br />
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But emotional dishonesty or suppression leads to anger and resentment towards the partner. And if that blaming and lying to self continues long enough it can easily cause cancer. The antidote is to get honest with onesself--emotionally--and then with new self esteem make changes in your own life. Don't ask them to change. But know if you change, they will know deep inside that they must change too...or leave. And its okay if they leave, because there is nothing you got from them that you can't get better from your Inner Being. Not love, not money not companionship...nothing. And with your movement into alignment with what your Inner Being knows is Truth, your body will heal.<br />
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And if your religion or family bans separation or divorce--then it can go too. It will be replaced by an ever growing relationship with your Inner Being (God).<br />
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Below I discuss how and why I believe people very often squelch their honest emotions and pinch themselves off from their Inner Being...when they get married.<br />
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">I have found myself feeling concerned<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>about what I recently said to you ...warning you to not get married. And I'd like to clarify my feelings about marriage and hopefully leave you feeling freer about it.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">I believe that ALL relationships are <i>perfect</i>, including my own 2 marriages and your Mom's ...and everyone's.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>So if you ever feel strongly that you want to marry , know that you have my blessing.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">I know that relationships will bring you an opportunity to learn whatever your soul wants you to learn... <i>about yourself.</i> That's spiritual gold and can be taken with you on your eternal journey of expansion...through every lifetime. But one must know that the other is a mirror for you in order to get the gold.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">I've heard many people , upon divorce, when asked what they they learned from it , say something like, "I learned to never marry another jerk like him (her, they)!" That's not helpful. The idea is to try and discover what you learned about yourself. And below I'll talk about a good way to that. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">But, to continue-- by looking at my own experience of marriages,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>and watching others' too,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I have noticed that many people make the same mistakes that lead to much unhappiness. However, these can always be<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>composted for new growth.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">It seems to me that our culture holds up relational love as a high ideal. People strive to find it...as if it were an objective state outside of self. They believe it's just a matter of finding the right person out there...when in fact it's an inner condition of just <i>being good at loving</i>. We are supposed to love ourself first, and the other second.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">People considering marriage seem to not realize that they (along with their Inner Being, ) are after spiritual gold for themselves, spiritual expansion first and foremost. And the more they are able to experience that, the better they become at loving themselves and others... and the more valuable they become to all...but most especially to themselves.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">However, being in an outer-directed era of human evolution, we think that certain outer conditions will make us happy...like finding Mr. or Ms Right. ( or fame or fortune). They won't. But an Inner Condition of alignment with our Inner Being will. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">We can achieve that alignment<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>by allowing ourselves to feel and follow our deepest most honest emotions. They are messages from our Inner Being. That's inner-directedness. Using intuition helps and that's just about noticing what feels "off" and what feels "on."</span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">But our culture puts heavy pressure on us to conform and be outer-directed like the majority are. They say we must pursue culturally approved ways of living and supposedly being happiest-- including looking for love "out-there" rather than within. They think that looking for happiness within<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>first conflicts with getting it from the outside. WRONG!</span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">Looking for it within (and eventually finding the all-satisfying love we all deeply desire)<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>from Inner Being is the best insurance of having outer love find you! You will become a magnet for love.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">However, in our outer-directed culture we have romanticized and exaggerated the value of outer love. When we meet someone and the feelings are powerful it is really just that they remind us of our real Inner Being and its tremendous love for us, and ours for that Beautiful Being. But we project our own Inner Being outward onto the other...and so are powerfully drawn to them.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">Unfortunately ,</span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">So it appears to me that what marriage usually does is demand a committment to NOT CHANGING<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>and to IGNORING OUR FEELINGS<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>if they conflict with our staying. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">Freedom to explore and change and expand and grow are basic and crucial to human existence...as is emotional self- honesty and the spiritual gold it leads to.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">But most times, when people make marriage vows they are trying to hold onto an outer form of marriage. They swear to only be intimate with that one other person forever...til death do us part. And they start to try and suppress honest feelings, of attraction to others, that might rock the boat...just so they can stay together forever.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">Many begin to starve spiritually as they pinch themselves off from the true spiritual food they need (feeling honest emotions sent from Inner Being). Next they start to try and feed the hunger with physical food. Many put on extra weight after marriage.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">They start to ignore their feelings and to lie to themselves and their partner about what they are feeling or not feeling. This creates more distance and misalignment with their wise Inner Being--their True Love. Rumi calls his "The Beloved." But then this emotional shutting down also creates distance with their partner!</span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">So marriage has a false major premis --"This person will provide me with happiness forever." Whereas the true major premise, which most couples don't know, is that their partner came to them to be a mirror for the best and worst IN THEMSELVES. If you see something you like in your partner, know you are seeing something you like in yourself. And if you see something you don't like in your partner, go within and look for that pecadillo in yourself. Change it there...and then watch the outside change. The partner will either drop the pecadillo or...or leave! And that's okay.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">So when the honey moon is over ( and the projection of the best in themselves onto other begins to be intermixed with seeing some of what they DON'T like about themselves) they are deeply disappointed. They feel angry, betrayed, let down etc. They blame the other for not being the perfect beloved (that their own Inner Being actually is!)</span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">Maybe it would and maybe it wouldn't But you'll be okay either way if you stay honest.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">If the couple force themselves to stay in the external form of the marriage and try to bury the resentment it often leads to cancer (or other diseases) and death. They'd rather die than continue to try to live the soul-insulting lie. And they can't give themselves permission to be honest. Guilt and shame at their "failure" complicates things further.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">I have seen this first hand in my Mind Body practice, and in my own life.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">So that's why I warned you against marriage. Having said that, there do seem to be a few people who really did intend to spend a lifetime together...from before they were born.And they manage to find a way to be honest with each other...and stay true to themselves.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #10253f; mso-style-textfill-fill-alpha: 100.0%; mso-style-textfill-fill-color: #10253F; mso-style-textfill-fill-colortransforms: lumm=50000; mso-style-textfill-fill-themecolor: text2; mso-themecolor: text2; mso-themeshade: 128;">So now even if you ignore or forget all of this above, I know that you and your Inner Being have it all under control. You'll get what you came for, no matter what your choices are. </span></div>
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Website Owner: Brenda H. Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00850337192581910303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792745805491094050.post-24013070382607309562018-05-07T19:18:00.004-07:002018-06-17T10:32:32.670-07:002018! Another Self-Healing-from-Cancer-Sucess-Story...with Caveat<div style="text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b><span style="font-size: xx-small;">"No one can save another." <i>The Kin of Ata are Waiting For You</i></span></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b><span style="font-size: xx-small;">"But
after that time Augustine refused to do any healing. It was quite
definitely 'donagdeo' [off, or out of alignment] she insisted." <i>The Kin of Ata are Waiting for You</i></span></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><u>Update June 2018</u></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">I have been very busy working on my own spiritual growth and on my novel "SJ" for the past couple of years. The book is almost done and hopefully will be an entertaining way for people to learn more about cancer self healing skills. It is a novel based on Steve Jobs' life.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I haven't been taking many clients recently but did take one woman with breast cancer last fall and she is cancer-free now.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Unfortunately, soon after our 2 hour meeting, in which she did uncover the root mental/emotional cause of the cancer, but didn't yet fully realize or understand what she had done, she contacted a psychic healer and had a telephone treatment. It, apparently, was very dramatic and soon after that that she discovered that she was cancer free...<i>and gave the credit to the psychic healer instead of to herself!</i></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">This is very sad when this happens. I know that most psychic healers are very well-intentioned. But it is still "donagdeo" or "off."</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I used to do psychic healing. And it is very possible to send powerful thoughts of love, health and healing to a person and have them become symptom free. I did it many times and I thought I was doing a good thing. But eventually I realized that I was not giving them anything...in fact I was stealing something extremely very valuable from them...their inner PROCESS!</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I was taking away (distracting them from) their god-given ability to know they could heal themselves. I was taking away their power and responsibility (they go together). If a "healer" of any stripe, takes away a person's responsibility, power and process of self-healing, they are also taking away the person's ability to repeat the process for themselves with any other illness or injury they might get in future.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Back then I was treating the illness as if it were an enemy and had no value. I was treating the illness as if it was just something to be gotten rid of...not learned from. But what I eventually came to understand is that the illness is truly a gift...a teacher...an ally. It is meant to be a messenger with the news that somewhere one has picked up a rotten belief that is making one sick. And when one has discovered the true helpful belief then one has not only healed but has added spiritual gold to take with them on their eternal journey.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">The rotten belief can be assumed to be one of long-standing if it gets to the stage of producing a life-threatening illness. Probably at least a few years if not most of the life time, the belief has been nurtured and has spread to other healthy parts of the individual's belief system and poisoned and compromised them as well. E.g., "my husband makes me unhappy" can lead to a series of generalizations such as, "other people have control over my life," and "I am powerless," and "Life sucks." "I wish I were dead..." etc. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">In this particular case of the woman with breast cancer whom I talked with last fall, I noticed that she had a great deal to say about her husband, much of it expressing negative feelings. However, eventually, after I had repeated back to her her own words, she said "I don't think you like my husband!" I said "I don't know your husband. I am just repeating back to you what you have told me about him and how you feel about him." She was projecting onto me her own feelings that were difficult for her to face. They were unacceptable to her and so she projected them onto me. She was trying to get rid of them, but I refused to accept them as having their source in me. After more discussion though she did face them to a degree--enough to heal herself of cancer. She faced her feelings of anger and resentment and began to better understand her personal power in dealing with him. Recently, I heard from a mutual friend that she had changed her relationship with her husband significantly after our talk. That was what healed her.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">However, like most people in our culture she wanted to believe in outside authorities. We want to believe that someone out there knows more about us than we do. However, we truly are the experts on ourselves. The other day a friend of mine, who knows this, related an exchange with her doctor that left us both limp with laughter. When she resisted some part of his treatment he said to her, "Who knows more about you and your health...you or me?" She said "ME!" and walked out. I applauded.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">According to Dr. Christiane Northrup students are literally taught in med school to think of themselves as medical <i>deities</i>. They are taught to be BIG authority figures. Hence when they give a designer diagnosis, or say "its incurable", or "there's a very low chance of survival," they are doing "medical hexing"--a phrase Dr. Northrup contrived for the powerful negative suggestions many doctors give their patients rather than just saying with humility "I don't know." Or "Allopathic medicine doesn't know."</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">But psychic healers, who are just as well intentioned as most MD's are, are doing a similar thing. They are making powerful <i>positive</i>, authoritative, pronouncements about themselves and their power to heal you. They believe strongly in themselves and the goodness of their goals and methods. They believe strongly in health. And they see the results--people usually heal, but often temporarily , or they contract another disease. Doctors' treatments often end the same way...unless the patient has made some significant change towards the positive in their emotional/mental life.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">As I mentioned above, I know much about this because I used to be there. I recall the shock I got when someone once challenged me and my psychic healing skills by saying it was a bad thing that I was doing. She was pretty judgmental, but it started me on a line of thinking that led me eventually to the Vesica Pisces Method of Self -Healing. The Vesica Piscis is an ancient symbol that tells us "All is within...." including the power to heal ourselves</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Everyone can heal themselves of anything. Its a God-Given Power. But sometimes it's nice to have a guide who can help you get in touch with your Inner Being so that that part of YOU can take over your guidance and healing for you. We are meant to work on our health together with our Inner Being in their loving, patient, allowing way. We always end up happier and more empowered when we do this...not to mention physically healed.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I know that eventually my recent client, who now thinks the psychic healer fixed her, will come to know her Inner Being...her Self.... and will discover the true source of every healing she ever encountered in her body... herself/Self.</span>Website Owner: Brenda H. Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00850337192581910303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792745805491094050.post-5078257349935396812016-06-15T09:42:00.002-07:002016-06-15T10:01:19.578-07:00PLEASE READ THIS ABOUT THE PAGES FIRST<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-size: large;"> Please go to the pages listed above and read "How to Heal Yourself of Cancer" first. Then I invite you to read the Posts below in the suggested order given. (I couldn't figure out how to re-order the posts physically on this web-page.) </span><br />
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<b>1.HOW TO HEAL YOURSELF OF CANCER<br /> <br /> 3/19/12<br /><br />2.THE ROOTS OF CANCER<br /> 2/15/13<br /> <br />3.THE CURE FOR CANCER IS HERE NOW<br /> <br /> 2/7/13<br />4 SELF HEALING STORY #1--CORN MAIDEN<br /> <br /> 1/26/12<br /><br />5. CHINESE PSYCHIATRIST CURES CANCER<br /> 1/2/12<br /><br />6.VESICA PISCIS METHOD OF HEALING CANCER<br /> <br /> 12/9/11<br />7. WHAT AM I FEELING?<br /><br />8. OUR LIMITING BELIEFS ABOUT HEALING<br /> <br />9.. IS THIS BLAMING THE VICTIM?<br /> 12/24/14<br /> <br />10. 9.QUOTES FROM EINSTEIN AND AMIT GOSWAMI -- PLUS EMOTION<br /> <br /> 14/9/13<br /><br />11.ANSWER TO LETTER ABOUT CANCER AND HEREDITY<br /> <br /> 12/20/12<br /> <br />12.THE WORD IS SPREADING<br /> <br /> 4/22/12<br /><br /> <br />13. AN OPEN LETTER TO "The International Cancer Conference"<br /> <br /> 2/22/12<br /> <br />14.. COMMENTS GRATEFULLY RECEIVED<br /> </b>Website Owner: Brenda H. Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00850337192581910303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792745805491094050.post-87565003577022691442014-05-27T09:43:00.000-07:002014-06-08T08:51:51.903-07:00OUR LIMITING BELIFS ABOUT HEALING<span style="font-size: large;"> The thing is that we are all in the grips of a pan-cultural limiting belief--including doctors. And since doctors are given a very left brained , intellectually, rationally oriented education, the part of them that could have led them and medical science to our true healing powers has, basically, been educated out of them. So they cast about within the narrow confines of the intellect or ego-mind...<i>for an answer that is not in that arena at all</i>!</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Lester Levenson, originator of The Sedona Method found this out for himself. He was a brilliant man with several graduate degrees. But had become extremely unhappy and ill. The doctors gave him 2 weeks to live. Facing that he began to explore beyond his intellectual/rational mind and by 3 months later he had found all of the answers within--which is where I found them as well. He healed fully--not only his body, but his relationships and his understanding of money. He had "worked hard and amassed a fortune" but then discovered the money hadn't been coming from his hard work or genius, but from his expectation. He simplified his expectation of how money could come to him and became so wealthy he could give it all away--now knowing how he could manifest <i>whatever</i> he desired, very quickly. He went on to live another 40 years--in excellent health and happiness. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Unfortunately most people who are sick or who are caring for a loved one who is sick are functioning within the same limitations Lester faced at first--a belief that healing must come from some <i><b>outside</b></i> source. It is nobody's fault that they do not understand the <b><i>enormous</i></b> power within themselves. It's been educated out of them. (We all had it as babies). </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">It is just that we are only beginning to emerge from "The Dark Ages," of healing. Our spiritual evolution is calling us to move into the light, but it can only invite. God only invites. God does not tell us what to do. God has given us the great gift of the freedom to use our consciousness however we wish. And basically we are constantly faced with a choice of using our small mind or our large mind from the moment we awaken in the morning til we fall asleep at night. Unfortunately--or, since everything is actually perfect, fortunately--we are operating in the dark. The answer is there, but we must literally FEEL around for it.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I was listening to an audio book last evening called <u>Heaven is Real</u> by Todd Burpo. And I saw this problem strung out among all of the incidents which are recorded in the book. The problem is that we are taught to THINK rather than to FEEL.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">In the true story, the Rev. Burpo, his wife and two children have been having a very bad time of it, but seemingly having come to the end of a long string of Job-like challenges, they take a road trip to celebrate. By the way, those Job-like challenges could have led the family to pre-knowledge that worse was coming if they did not attend to the messages they were getting and do something about it.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Specifically the father had broken his leg and then had gotten breast cancer. Had he been educated to keep his right brain/female mind --the mind he was born with--functioning he could have seen that the broken leg was a message likely about not standing up for himself. And later the breast cancer could have suggested that he was nurturing others more than his inner child was happy with. Pastors are supposed to be selfless in our silly society. No one is. We are all meant to put ourselves first in an enlightened-loving way. But I suspect he did not know that. And his ignoring it was scaring the heck out of his inner child. When we don't stand up for ourselves and put our own needs first it leaves a deep, child like part of ourselves feeling very insecure.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">So then in that family gestalt, the youngest child, Colton agreed on some higher level, to be the one who expressed the problem for the family in the next round of messages. He got appendicitis--which is a physical representation of extreme fear. He was showing his Dad that man's fears, on his own child level. By the way, we do not out-grow childish ways--and are not meant to. Childhood is not left behind. It remains as our foundation and as such needs constant vigilant attention. "Do I feel happy in my child-self?" we need to ask ourselves frequently. But they did know about this.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">So, they encountered yet another staggering challenge in the form of the near-death of their 4 year old child Colton. He develops appendicitis but the doctors and medical technicians consistently misdiagnose the child's problem and he becomes inexorably worse until he is on the brink of dying. The symbolism of the "trusted doctors" being untrustworthy, I interpret as a symbol of both the father's and the doctors' (and likely the wife's too) over reliance on the rational/intellectual mind. Our whole culture does this, but many are moving beyond this--as we are all meant and all will eventually. The intellect is NOT reliable by itself. It overestimates its own intelligence and it eschews the far greater intelligence of the intuitive, super-rational mind. They are meant to work together with the intuitive mind leading the way.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">So Colton's parents have been extremely compliant with the doctors, technicians and hospital staff--trusting that they all know more than themselves. BIG MISTAKE.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">The Vesica Piscis symbol tells us --ALL IS WITHIN. Their authority lay within themselves--most especially within the child himself.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">At the very beginning they told the doctor, and continued to mention, that they believed it was appendicitis. However, the doctors all insisted that their tests were reliable and that they did not point to appendicitis. So they did not treat him for that...and he got sicker.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">The docotors' rational minds were saying "it's not appendicitis" and the parents' intuitive minds were telling them " it IS appendicitis." And the latter were correct. The problem was that for 2 weeks they vetoed the information they were receiving from the right brain/intuitive mind and allowed the intellect/left brain remain dominant--both in themselves and in the doctors.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">So it could have ended tragically. Colton's father, as a pastor, had seen many people die. He saw death in the face of his extremely emaciated, hollow-eyed, limp child, who had not eaten for 2 weeks and who had been throwing up constantly.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">When he allowed that in fully he finally broke emotionally. He raged at God and with that emotional movement his God-Self was able to reach his soul-personality self and kick him into action.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">He removed his son from that hospital, took him to another, where he was immediately diagnosed correctly and operated on. He did recover fully.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Intuition is correct 100% of the time, but being able to tell the difference between an intuitive thought and an intellectual "good idea" is a subtle art. It can and will be learned. But it is a process, albeit an inevitable one for all who wish to "go home."</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">As the human race grows it can choose to descend into yet more darkness. God will allow more suffering if people choose that. But truly the way to end suffering is to turn inward. Meditate on the Vesica Piscis symbol and it will help you to do this.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">We need to stop projecting power and responsibility out onto others--especially doctors, hospitals, pharmaceutical companies and insurance companies. We have the power to keep healthy and to never need any of the above. I do--at this point however--believe that if we have created things like ruptured appendices, or heart failure, or severe wounds that we should avail ourselves of the emergency measures that allopathic medicine offers.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">But in conjunction with that, in order to bring about healing as quickly as possible we should be turning within and asking ourselves, "how did I create this reality? What is the message behind this? What misalignment have I created between my intellectual beliefs and what is really true?" The Great Mother is Truth --both emotional and factual--and as extensions of her we want to telling ourselves and others the Truth as often as we can. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Emotional truth is the most important Truth. For our emotions are messages from our God-Center within. If we are experiencing negative emotions around something, we would be wise to move away from whatever we are feeling negative about. If we are feeling positive emotions about something, we are safest to move toward it.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">These emotions are often in conflict with seeming "rational truth" and "practicality" or so-called fact, and "what is seemingly real." Reality is only a thought form we have built up by focusing on something alone or together with others. All negative events and things are thought forms we have miscreated by being out of alignment with Truth. So to focus on them and fight them is only to add energy to that false thought form. It is not real. WE change our reality by following our positive emotions and staying focused on the good things we want. We create feelings and vibrations first that later become events and things.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">And I am not talking about pasting "happy faces" on everything. We must tell ourselves the Truth. If we are feeling badly, we must allow those feelings. We must face and feel them. And when we do, then an inner psycho-spiritual movement is set up. We automatically begin to move in the direction of healing and all that is happier. We can consciously assist that process by using our will power to avoid thinking the same old negative beliefs, and by asserting our will power to find some belief or observation that feels even slightly better. These are just choices and choices are powerful. We are here to make choices.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Slowly we can work our way out of negative thought patterns to the wholly positive ones that are Truth.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">So God does not want us to suffer. When we find ourselves suffering--even a little--we can know that we have gone off the rails somewhere; that we are now out of alignment with The Divine at the center of our being--that lovely place with the beautifully feminine feel to it. (By the way--most cultures refer to the soul as "she").</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">As mentioned above, in the book <u>Heaven is Real</u>, the author, Rev. Todd Burpo relates that eventually both he and his wife reached emotional breaking points. After weeks of struggling to trust the doctors and of stuffing their doubts and anger about the fact that Colton was only getting worse and was now close to death, they both cracked--she in tears, he in rage. Both are good.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">And with that cracking--that allowing of emotional authenticity --they suddenly were able to move forward and to make a decision to remove Colton from the hospital where he had <b>not</b> been helped and to move him to another where he was quickly diagnosed as having a ruptured appendix. He was operated on and eventually all the toxins were removed from his body and he is now a normal 15 year old (in 2014).</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Again, as I mentioned earlier, the family, in my estimation, was getting many strong messages prior to Colton's nearly dying, that indicated they were out of alignment with emotional and spiritual Truth. Religion is hard on ministers and priests. They are expected to be Christ-like or God-like without having gone through everything He went through to get there organically. They attempt to put on a superficial imitation of Him and when they cannot (because they have not gone through all of the steps) they end up often times being quite inauthentic. They stuff natural feelings, or hide them. They avoid the actions that would have flowed naturally from those judged and rejected feelings, and in doing so sometimes end up doing great harm to themselves and others.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">We are not perfect. But we are perfectly imperfect. The Great Mother wants desperately for us to feel Her unconditional love for us--and to have it for ourselves--no matter what we have done "wrong." At the same time She offers constant guidance away from hurtful beliefs and actions and towards positive ones. But she does not judge us.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Many pastors are quite judgmental, overtly towards themselves and sometimes covertly towards others--especially their own family. Oftentimes there is a son who acts out all that the pastor-father is repressing. Colton's sister says of him, "He may have died and gone to heaven, but he's no angel." The father is repressing his feelings and the actions they would lead to naturally because he judges them to be bad or wrong or un-Christian. And so the son acts it out for him. The father judges his misbehavior or fails to understand its origin and so tries to fix the son. But the only fix is within himself. Healing comes from unconditional acceptance of all thoughts and beliefs--no matter how "sinful" some might think them. It comes from a slow working away to the foundations of those thoughts, beliefs and feelings until one finds the gem of Truth--a positive thing that The Great Mother wants you to have! </span><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">Violence against the self or others, while God allows it, is at the same time strongly discouraged. And one of the most violent things one can do to oneself or others is to not allow their emotional honesty. For it cuts them off from God. </span></i><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">So somehow the family--in all their well-meaning efforts--were out of touch with what God really wanted for them--and so they suffered for their rejection and resistance by creating broken legs, breast cancer, gall stones etc. all in the year prior to Colton's near death experience. And with that experience I think they must have had some deep inner shifts in their beliefs, for things got better.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> Todd began working on the book. They perhaps deepened their trust in God to take care of them. And Colton had his precious experience of heaven as well as a first hand understanding that he has an eternal soul that is separate from the body and which does survive death. We all do. I am sure there were others. Breast cancer suggests nurturing others before the self and harboring hidden resentments about it. Broken legs suggest not moving in a new direction one is being called to or not standing up for one's self. Gall stones suggests that one might be living in a galling situation that one is trying to accept, but without allowing for the certainty that improvement is possible and desirable.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">In the book, Todd Burpo relates his son's NDE's including his consciousness leaving his body and going to heaven where he received much comfort and assistance. He also tells about how Colton was able to move around the hospital in his out-of-body-state and to make observations that were later verified.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">This brings me back again to the most important thing to know, and the reason why the Vesica Piscis Method works. <b><u><i>We are all pure consciousness--now and always. </i></u></b>We put on physical bodies for the major purpose of giving ourselves conscious feed back about <i>the condition of our consciousness...of our the mental/emotional state of our soul personality selves </i>(SPS).</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">If our SPS is a little out of alignment with our God Center Self (GCS) then we get a hang nail or a stubbed toe or something else minor. If we are a lot out of alignment we get very sick. Or we have a bad "accident."</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">So, it is never enough to just heal the cancer with this method. One must continue to use the basic method to heal oneself of everything that arises--including minor things. Learn to nip things in the bud. Because negative or limiting beliefs are formed by repeatedly thinking an out-of-alignment-thought. There will always be some negative sign when we first start to go off the rails. But I will expand on that in another post.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">A wise friend of mine noticed that she was often stumbling as she walked down the sidewalks of her city. She began to pay attention to what thoughts she had been thinking just before her misstep and realized that she was always thinking some critical thought about someone just before it. When she started to make an effort to consciously allow her feelings about the person... <i>and to take them as a reflection of how she was feeling about herself,</i> and then to allow more positive feelings about herself and others...she stopped stumbling so often. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">We are here to expand. Expansion is always positive. It always feels good. When we diminish ourselves by espousing limiting or negative beliefs we literally shrink, spiritually.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">So, most doctors do the best they can within the limitations of their understanding. Unfortunately medical schools not only teach a purely superficial, physical, intellectual approach to healing (one that never works) [but more on that later] and they also oftentimes teach their students a great arrogance and authority along with their science. They teach very little about respect for their clients; and nothing about eliciting their clients' own knowledge of their bodies and their powers of self-healing power. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">But we are not victims. We are just here to learn to <i>not</i> revere the outside--outside authorities or so-called " reality." We are here to learn to stop projecting our own power, responsibility, beauty, wisdom, knowledge and authority out onto others. We are here to learn to turn inward and trust our own innate knowingness.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> We create our own reality. We build it up like a house, brick by brick and then it is suddenly done and we move in. We live in it. But if it is not a happy home we can repair it, or tear it down, or just move altogether. A home that has cancer in it can be remodeled. Keep the best, the positive, and eschew the rest. Allowing all feelings is positive.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Keep working on your home by creating beautiful comfortable renovations and additions (new positive beliefs) that feel God-Centered. As we do this we get healthier and healthier in every way.</span>Website Owner: Brenda H. Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00850337192581910303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792745805491094050.post-45547495524818514272014-02-24T21:52:00.001-08:002014-02-24T21:56:46.536-08:00IS THIS BLAMING THE VICTIM?I recently moved to a small town in Maine and at the center of the village one can find a post office, a fire station and a country store. I was alone in the tiny dining room of the latter, having breakfast the other day, when an older couple came in and sat down. This being a friendly community we soon were chatting away. They asked what I did and I replied I was a semi retired Mind/Body Counselor, who had specialized in cancer, but was now writing a book about it. They asked more about that and I told them it was called "SJ" and it was a novel based on Steve Jobs' life--a fantasy in which I met him and helped him to heal himself of cancer.<br />
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I noticed that their friendliness was chilling a bit and soon the woman shared that she had had cancer 40 years before and had looked into all types of cures. Then her mind took a leap and assumed that I was talking about Faith-Based Healing, which she stated she detested because it "blamed the victim" as she put it.<br />
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The husband then added that he was furious with the parents who had taken their daughter out of a hospital because they believed God would heal her--and she died. He got up and left at that point. The woman changed the subject and I did not try to pursue the subject further as I could see their minds were made up and there was no purchase there for new information.<br />
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This accusation though--that the method I offer blames the victim--is one I have heard many times before--from perhaps 1/3 of the people I discuss it with. The other point people often bring up is that children get cancer--even babies-- and so this method cannot possibly be based in truth. But there are very good answers to both of those objections--if people will listen.<br />
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I will address the "blame the victim" issue in this post and "why children get cancer" in another.<br />
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With "blame the victim" there are various hidden suppositions and false premises lurking. There is also the ego mind doing a few of its favorite tricks--namely judging, fearing truth and change, and being pessimistic.<br />
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The major hidden false premise is that "someone must be at fault when something goes wrong." This is typical of our left brain, rational mindset. I call it a masculine mind set also. It prevails at this point in our human evolution, but it did not in the early days of our evolution and it will not in a future evolution of our consciousness. There is another mindset which is more feminine, one that does not need to place blame. If you do not believe me about the masculine feminine slant to this mindset then I would invite you to think of the last time something went wrong when a man was involved. Most men seem to immediately go to feeling responsible for it, then to guilt, then to shame and then to placing blame elsewhere. Their ego cannot tolerate being thought badly of--or of having made a mistake.<br />
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Women who are not too deeply steeped in the patriarchal mindset do something different when things go wrong. They try to create community in order to find a solution. This community might be an external social one or an internal spiritual one.<br />
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What my spiritual understanding has led me to is that when something goes wrong, there is no one to blame, but everyone involved is responsible for it to one degree or another and there is no use in trying to figure out who is most responsible. In fact it could easily be said that everyone involved is 100 percent responsible.<br />
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So here is where people really get uncomfortable and start to scream "you're blaming the victim!" But that is really a very pessimistic and negative point of view. It is calling the glass of water half empty rather than half full.<br />
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What we are really talking about here is power and responsibility. They are flip sides of the same coin. And when you give one away you give the other away as well. It is best to keep the whole coin in your own pocket. In truth that is where it belongs and it cannot be given away anyways.<br />
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What I am saying is that we all have the power to heal ourselves, by using our minds properly. In fact Dr. Albert Schweitzer said, and I fully agree, that "all healing is self healing." He meant that no one anywhere on the planet at any time in history was <i>ever</i> healed by somebody else--no matter how many people believe that doctors and medicine and their various machines and chemicals and whatever healed them. No Reike, no faith healer, no herbs, no Christ, no diet, no form of outer healing whatsoever ever healed anyone. It was always, without exception, the person themselves that healed themselves. They might believe someone or something else healed them, but invariably the person underwent some change within their consciousness in which they aligned themselves more closely with their Divine center and Ultimate Spiritual Truth--and it was THAT that healed them. Nothing else.<br />
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So when I ascribe full healing power to you, if you are an optimistic and positively inclined in your thinking, you will respond, "Wow! I have the power to heal myself! Cool!" But if you are pessimistic and negatively inclined you will respond, "You are blaming me, the helpless, powerless victim, for my own suffering!" And you will reject the awareness of your own innate power to heal yourself.<br />
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Your having cancer is not a bad thing. It is a gift, a teacher, an ally you have called to yourself in order to come back into alignment with who you really are--a Divine, Sacred eternal being who chose to live a human life in a human body that will give you constant feedback as to your alignment, or lack thereof, with Truth. Your emotions will too. Ill health and negative emotions mean you are out of alignment. Good health and positive emotions mean you are in alignment. However, beware of pasting happy faces on over genuinely unhappy feelings. You must first feel the uncomfortable feelings honestly, then change the negative beliefs behind them, act on the new positive beliefs, and feel the new <i>genuinely</i> happier feelings that arise from that.<br />
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We live in very outer directed times. That is the nature of the left brain, rational, male mind at this point in history. It is the mindset of choice of most adults in the world today. Be aware though that the rational mind <i>can</i> be directed to look inward, and would do well to do so. But ultimately there is a right brain mind that is vastly larger and more powerful, a mind that we can engage that will do all the hard work the rational mind thought it had to do--and do it much more easily, efficiently and quickly.<br />
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And the good news is that we all have one of these and it costs nothing to engage it and use it in our self-healing. In fact the Universe is so wise that it is making all other form of so-called "healing"--or "false healing modalities" more and more painful, costly and esoteric, as well as less and less effective. And the insurance to pay for them is also becoming more costly and less available. This is no happenstance, nor is it bad news.<br />
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A friend of mine wrote today that when adversity strikes, she no longer asks, "Why is this happening TO me?" But rather, "Why is this happening FOR me?" She looks for opportunities. And the <i><u>opportunity</u></i> that is being offered by cancer, by rising costs of conventional treatments, by the physical pain of these, by ineffectiveness, by the invasiveness, by immune system compromising chemical and radiational treatments-- is this: YOU HAVE BECAUSE OF ALL THE ABOVE THINGS YOU DON;T LIKE, THE OPPORTUNITY TO FIND SOMETHING VASTLY BETTER. YOU HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO UNDERSTAND THAT THE CURE FOR CANCER IS HERE NOW. IT LIES WITHIN YOU--WITHIN YOUR MIND. YOU HAVE THE POWER TO HEAL YOURSELF NOW. IN FACT YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN HEAL YOU. NO ONE ELSE CAN DO IT TO YOU OR FOR YOU. AND THAT IS GOOD NEWS. YOU ARE WEARING THE RED SHOES. NOW JUST CLICK YOUR HEELS.<br />
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Here is how to click. Accept the coin of power and responsibility, which you can spend on making yourself well. Here are the basic steps again:<br />
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<li>Imagine that the converse of that misconception or untrue belief is the <i>actual truth</i>.(Eg. I <i>am</i> lovable and I <i>can</i> thrive without him. This is a great opportunity!)</li>
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<li>Enjoy your spontaneous healing from cancer.</li>
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<br />Website Owner: Brenda H. Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00850337192581910303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792745805491094050.post-86303227250966423482013-04-09T11:56:00.000-07:002013-04-09T12:12:45.792-07:00QUOTES FROM EINSTEIN AND AMIT GOSWAMI -- PLUS EMOTION<br style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" />
(A post showing a simple outline of the steps to self-healing from cancer is lower down on this page. See "How to Heal Yourself of Cancer" )<br />
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A few thoughts to keep in mind while pursuing healing from cancer:<br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">~Dr </span><a data-hovercard="/ajax/hovercard/user.php?id=1398923678&extragetparams=%7B%22group_id%22%3A0%7D" href="https://www.facebook.com/quantumactivist?group_id=0" style="background-color: white; color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; text-decoration: none;">Amit Goswami</a><span style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">~</span><br />
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For example, the winter I was 13 years old, I desperately wanted to be slim, attractive and popular. I was plump, wore glasses, had spots and was painfully shy. Each night I would cry myself to sleep and visualize the beautiful me I wanted to be.</div>
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School closed for that year and in the early summer I began a 3 month journey to getting my wish. <i>However,</i> it came to me in an extremely painful way -- <i>BECAUSE this way was a perfect match vibrationally to the vibrational state of emotional pain I had asked in!</i></div>
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This is how it unfolded. My mother took me to the dentist for the first time in years. There we discovered that I had to have several teeth pulled. My mother, being a Spartan, insisted on no pain killers or anesthesia whatsoever. It was an unbelievable nightmare. Afterwards I was so deeply depressed, my mouth and jaw hurt so badly, and I was so nervous of getting food into the holes in my mouth... that I simply stopped eating almost completely!</div>
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Over that summer I lost 40 pounds, became anemic, healed from that, got contact lenses, a new hairdo (with an auburn rinse), new stylish clothes and I learned how to use eye makeup lightly to augment my large teal colored eyes. And when I entered high school that fall I had a figure with curves in all the right places--unlike before. </div>
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Not surprisingly perhaps--but surprising to me-- no one recognized me! I had to introduce myself. Suddenly I was very pretty and popular! My dream had come true!</div>
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However, if, during that previous winter, I had done my visualizations (intense use of imagination) <i><b><u>with feelings of joy at the expectation and belief that I really would be pretty and popular,</u></b></i> then the Universe would have sent me a matching event of similar vibration. </div>
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There is never any need to suffer --FOR ANY REASON-- in gaining our hearts desire.</div>
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Website Owner: Brenda H. Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00850337192581910303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792745805491094050.post-36209119981094669792013-02-15T19:29:00.000-08:002013-03-25T14:19:08.243-07:00THE ROOTS OF CANCER<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><br /></span></span>
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Cancer has a <i>spiritual</i> component that is at the root of the physical manifestation. In order to eradicate cancer one must always remove or change the negative emotional, mental, spiritual cause. When that is done--healing happens. However, any time cancer has been healed--<i>seemingly</i>-- due to surgery, or chemo, or radiation or herbs or acupuncture, or after the application of <i>any </i> purely physical level treatment has been applied, this is a misunderstanding. These purely physical level treatments may<i> seem</i> to have caused healing--but that is not the case.</div>
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<i> </i>Every time--<i>without exception</i>--the cause of healing is actually mental and emotional changes the person has made within themselves. When positive changes happen in the mind and heart of the person suffering with cancer, healing begins. IT WILL ALWAYS BE THOSE CHANGES AT THOSE LEVELS THAT HEALED THE PERSON AND NOTHING ELSE.</div>
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However, the coincidental application of the physical level treatments oftentimes confuses where responsibility should be assigned. The physical treatments usually get the credit for the cure. But this is simply not a true assessment of what actually happened.</div>
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Many people have healed themselves of cancer by applying psycho-spiritual corrections--in their consciousness only. Our bodies are out-growths of our consciousness. The health of our consciousness is always reflected in our bodies. Cancer is simply an outgrowth of some very serious misconceptions about what is true. Cancer is a symbol of some negative erroneous assumption that has been adopted into the person's belief system. And when it is removed and replaced with THE TRUTH, the body very quickly heals.<br />
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Sometimes the problematic belief is painted so big and so bright, as it were, that it is hard to see. It is often a culturally accepted belief. Or the belief may involve thoughts and feelings about someone very close to the person who is dealing with cancer. In fact this is very often the case. The ego-mind has drawn a boundary around that belief and/or that person and has posted KEEP OUT signs. In other words this is an area that feels very fragile to the person. They will not look at this area because there is likely a lot of shame or fear attached to it.<br />
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For example, cancer is very often related to feelings of anger towards parents or spouses or children. But the ego-mind may very well have a belief that certain unhappiness will ensue if the problematic relationship is examined too closely--and if genuine feelings about that person they are close to were to be honestly felt--why then the whole relationship might fall apart! And the ego mind believes that that would be a very bad thing for its happiness.<br />
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So let's plunge right in. Cancer is often related to long held anger and resentment that is now festering and growing--and is hidden under the surface of the conscious mind. It is not hard to access it, even though it may be "sub conscious." The so-called subconscious is just the corner of our mind where we have swept all the awareness of events and feelings that we felt we could not face at the time they happened. However, once these events and feelings <i>are</i> faced and the belief is turned 180 degrees around, AND, action has been taken on the new positive belief--the body heals--oftentimes miraculously quickly. And sometimes it happens so naturally and that the miracle is not noticed!<br />
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The tumor was there and growing for months. The natural inner mind/emotion/action changes were made. And very shortly after that the tumor was simply not there! It may be like it never existed. So there may be a temptation to not give yourself credit for having healed yourself.<u><i><b> </b></i></u><br />
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I have gotten to the place in my life where I do not wait for illnesses and bodily discomforts to turn into serious illnesses. All big illness are preceded by a series of minor but increasingly emphatic bodily disturbances that should be paid attention to. Any thing other than perfect health indicates that something is off in our belief system. We have gotten ahold of an incorrect assumption.<br />
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And as I said earlier some of these incorrect assumptions may be cultural ones for which you have been rewarded. Someone patted you on the head and said "Good little girl (or boy)." But often these beliefs simply served someone other than you. So they reaped some immediate benefits of a shallow sort from your self-destructive cooperation.</div>
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For example, a women might feel very successful in our culture by totally sacrificing herself for her husband, family and community. She will garner many kudos for this and will feel good about herself. Meanwhile, on deeper levels in her psyche she may not be feeling good at all! She may be legitimately wondering wondering why she and her happiness always has to come last after everyone else. So she has a common mistaken belief that it s better to give than to receive. And she may also believe that it is a mistake to complain when one is unhappy. And she may believe that the happiness of others is more important than her own. She may believe that self sacrifice is what God wants of her. She may belief that what others think of her is more important than how she actually feels--emotionally: that the secondary happiness she receives from the approbation of others can make up for ignoring her own desires and natural impulses towards primary happiness for herself.</div>
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But all of these are mistaken beliefs. They often lead to nurturing others and not the self. That leads to breast cancer. The truth is one must put oneself first. When one does follow one's own bliss others will benefit. Most women feel a natural urge towards caring for their families, and happiness as a result of that--BUT--only as long as <i>their</i> needs are getting met too. There is enough to go around for everyone.</div>
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So in conclusion, we are primarily and eternally consciousness. The bodies we have are just equipment that comes with this particular reality. We live in many other realities. We have a body here to give us physical obvious feedback on how our spiritual health is. Any physical discomfort at all, tells us that we are out of alignment with spiritual truth. The worse the pain, or the more life threatening the illness, the more we are being shown that our spiritual health is seriously out of alignment with Truth.<br />
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But this should be seen as good news. It is nothing to fear. We will not be shown how bad we are. We will only be shown how much happier we could be if we allowed Truth in. And if we are happier, others around us will eventually be happier too.<br />
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For example, if a woman is not happy in her marriage, it may feel very frightening to her ego mind to think about that. She may want to cling to the outer form of the marriage--that is to stay married at all costs-- rather than to place a higher priority on her own deeper happiness. So her ego mind might fear looking at the emotional Truth of her unhappiness because she sees her husband as her source of physical/financial or social/emotional security--but the Truth is--he is not. The Divine being at the center of her SELF is the source of her well being and security--all kinds of security. By listening to her emotions and allowing them to lead her towards whatever makes her happy, she will find herself feeling more and more secure. She can then stop looking to her husband for things he is not meant to provide.<br />
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Her husband may choose to be a channel the universe uses to bring her security sometimes. But he should not be relied upon to always be that security. He is just acting as a cooperative component of her own allowing of abundance. But at any time he might step out of that role and it will be immediately filled by something else. To be truly safe she needs to discover the deepest source of her own security--her own Divine Being--her God Self--The Great Mother at the center of her being.<br />
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So if this woman has perhaps made concessions to her husband in order to keep him around, so that she can feel secure. She may wait on him hand and foot. Or she may give him sex when he wants it but she does not. Or she might be working and putting him through graduate school when she actually is wanting to be home having babies. She may be turning a blind eye to his philandering. There are any number of things she may want that she feels she cannot have because he might not like it--and she erroneously believes she needs him for her basic happiness. She may be keeping her emotional truth a secret (even from her self). This could leave her very angry and resentful towards him on a deep level. That anger and resentment may only get expressed obliquely as "accidents": she burns his toast continually, forgets to keep the check book balanced, or she might even get sick ("not tonight dear I have a headache") in order to avoid intimacy with him. But yet she still might cling to him. But some part of her is angry about whatever she has given up in order to not rock the boat with him and to keep him around. And she might even feel guilty about what she has done to him covertly to express her anger.<br />
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In any case the only answer is emotional truth first with herself--and then with him. With that will come great relief. Then she can move slowly towards figuring out what it is really "floats her boat." There will be no trade-offs when she comes into alignment with her deepest most essential self--a Self which IS TRUTH--DIVINE TRUTH.<br />
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This same sort of truth telling and subsequent actions based on that truth will set anyone free from any form of cancer or any other illness.<br />
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Website Owner: Brenda H. Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00850337192581910303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792745805491094050.post-75430425532666512032013-02-07T20:48:00.000-08:002013-02-07T20:54:46.490-08:00THE CURE FOR CANCER IS HERE NOW!I know that millions are still being spent on research to find a scientific cure for cancer, but truly the search is over.<br />
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The reason the scientists have not announced the cure is because they don't know it. They are looking side of a very small box when the answer is outside of the box. <br />
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The box is called "the physical level of our being." Allopathic medicine practitionsers (conventional medicine), although extremely well-intentioned, seems to be blind to most everything that is not on the physical level. They appear to believe that "Physical problems have physical causes and physical cures--ONLY!"<br />
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They do not recognize fully yet--although many are beginning to wake up to the truth--that we are also spiritual, mental and emotional beings--not just physical. And they do not yet realize that the actual root cause of physical problems lie in the spiritua/mental/emotional realm.<br />
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The <em>solution</em> to the problem of healing cancer is so BIG and so bright that very few people are seeing it. But it is staring us right in the face. People have been curing <em>themselves</em> of cancer since time immemorial. But somewhere along the line we began to give up power and authority to others for our healing--when actually the power to heal ourselves of ANYTHING lies within ourselves-- AND NO ONE ELSE! <br />
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So all of those seeming cures produced by whatever allopathic medicine believed in at the time--drinking glass fulls of mercury, or applying leaches... right down to chemotherapy, radiation and surgery are not now and never have cured anyone of cancer! The person's own mental shift cured them.<br />
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Each person who experienced a healing from cancer did so because on some deep level they underwent and spiritual, mental and emotional shift in their being. Perhaps under the stress of being faced with this illness, they co-incidentally decided some specific thing in their life had to change--maybe because they felt they had little time left in this life--so what the heck! They might have decided that someone else's behavior was no longer acceptable. "If I only have a year t live, I am not going to take <em>that</em> anymore!" they might have thought. And so they simply would not allow themselves to be treated badly or discourteously by that person any longer. Or they may have finally faced some dark secret they were ashamed of and said--what the heck--I've only got 6 months, I might as well face how badly I have been feeling about that. And so with facing certain "true feelings" about themselves or others they began to feel better. Landfills of old emotions were dug up and sent through the inner "waste-to-energy-plant." Rotting garbage of emotions came up to the surface of their consciousness, were aknowledge and allowed and acted upon (safely for everyone.) They examined their beliefs (thoughts) around the subject. They noticed large patterns of thinking and behavior on their part or on other people's parts. They changed some basic belief around a particular subject. And finally they took action on their own behalf--action based on their new positive belief. It would be action that, while perhaps risky in terms of how others might react, made they-themselves feel better.<br />
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For example, one person I know was secretly gay. However, they had married a person of the opposite sex, in order to please their parents and society. But it did not please them in their most basic self. Resentments grew towards their marriage partner--although it was not their fault--and they also felt bitter towards the culture they lived in for being less than accepting of different lifestyles (they worked in the academic world.)<br />
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So after having been diagnosed with cancer (in the genitals) they finally faced their own gayness and became more honest with themselves emotionally...and then with others as well. This brought great relief emotionally, which immediately allowed much more energy to flow through the body. (Restrictive, tight, pinching mindsets create restricted, tight, pinched body-sets. They shut off energy flow in the body.) Energy needs to flow freely through the mind first and then it will flow freely through the body.<br />
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So the whole secret is to face what one has been keeping secret from oneself (and often others too) pull it out into the light. Let the energy flow around it. And then act on new positive beliefs that become apparent. The body will heal itself naturally, all by itself, with that.<br />
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So doctors are not used to thinking in this way...that the mind is actually the root cause of our illnesses, but it is. That is why science has not come up with this big bright obvious naswer--that if we are unhappy or angry for a long time it wil eventually makes us ill--even unto cancer.<br />
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In future I see the psychologists and other types of emotional/ mental counselors as also being the catalysts for physical healing as well--the new doctors. In our not too distant future, the counselors will assist people to their own self-healing.<br />
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Dr. Albert Schweitzer said it decades ago--" ALL HEALING IS SELF-HEALING." And so it is. This website gives the basic steps for bringing about one's own self healing, but if you need help with them, I would be happy to assist you. I normally get $60 per hour for telephone counseling. But if you don't have it I can adjust my fee--down to 0 if need be.<br />
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This information belongs to the world. But your paid fee or donation can assist me to get the message out more effectively.<br />
You can reach me at 207 443-3522 for an appointment. All the information you need to heal yourself is in this website, for free, but don't be ashamed to ask for help. Sometimes it easier for another person to see the forest you are lost in. While we are in the middle of it, it can be difficult to see the forest, because the trees are in the way!<br />
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Peace and Blessings on Your Journey to Health!<br />
Love, BrendaWebsite Owner: Brenda H. Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00850337192581910303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792745805491094050.post-66921022669527114112012-12-20T09:22:00.000-08:002012-12-20T09:22:07.947-08:00ANSWER TO LETTER ABOUT CANCER AND HEREDITY<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;">
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My family is well. I hope that yours is too.<o:p></o:p></div>
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I am honored that you have chosen to confide your fears and your worrisome [breast] condition with me. <o:p></o:p></div>
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I know it can seem unbelievable at first, but the more you use the steps outlined in the website the more you will see that it works and you will come to believe. I have used them all of my life and have healed myself of one thing after another. Now I have only occasional minor ailments, which I apply the same techniques to--and heal.<o:p></o:p></div>
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So even though you have not been diagnosed with cancer, it is good that you are paying attention to changes in your breasts. It does have importance for your health. May I ask how old you are?<o:p></o:p></div>
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If you are young and going through puberty it is normal for your breasts to change size. Breast size can vary a little bit also with were you are in your monthly menstrual cycle.<o:p></o:p></div>
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So I will address your question about heredity first and I will add the question and answer to my website as it is a very good question.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Do you believe in reincarnation? Or the eternal nature of the soul? I do. In fact I know these are both facts.<o:p></o:p></div>
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So given these facts and also the fact that we were conscious before we were born, the picture about heredity begins to come together.<o:p></o:p></div>
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We are fully conscious<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>and spiritually mature beings before we are born into this life.<o:p></o:p></div>
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And before we were born we discussed with our spiritual teachers what spiritual issue we wanted to focus upon in the next life. This life.<o:p></o:p></div>
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When we had selected an issue, we then met with other souls who had the same issue, for we wanted to be part of a family that could reflect our issue in either positive and negative ways--or both. We wanted to have the reflection to study--like looking in a mirror so we could see in someone else close to us what was perhaps more difficult to see in our selves. You know how that can be? It is sometimes easier to see other people's problems and solutions than it is to see our own.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Before we were born we also considered entering many different ancestral families. We looked at many family histories to see if they were dealing with this same spiritual issue that we were interested in. All individuals in all families do this before their birth.<o:p></o:p></div>
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So, having selected an issue, we then we<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>selected a family--and their family history--their ancestors--who had been working on this spiritual issue--sometimes for many generations. This spiritual issue, if not dealt with, would lead to serious health issues. The spiritual issue would even affect the genes. Thus, to doctors of Western Medicine (which is all over the world now) it APPEARS to them that the gene causes the health issue. That is because they only look at the physical level of any illness. <o:p></o:p></div>
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The male mind only looks at the surface of things. The female mind looks deeper. But the female mind is not respected in the world these days. (And many women are trying to be like men instead of trying to be like their own deepest feminine being. They give up power and authority to men--to the male mind. This is a big mistake.)<o:p></o:p></div>
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Please understand that when I speak of a "spiritual issue" I mean that there will be both positive and negative sides to the issue. For example, there may be an issue of power in one family. And in that family some members will seem powerful and dominating, others will express power wisely through strength and love, others will have the issue of feeling powerless--perhaps being bullied or abused. So all sides of the issue may be reflected in the family. Or the family may choose to experience just one aspect of power--you know how some families seem to be powerless generation after generation? That is their choice before they are born--to experience this and to try to learn the true nature of PERSONAL<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>power. Power over others is not real power at all. We only have power over ourselves. And in reality--no-one else has any power over us that we do not give them. So when someone from a long-time powerless family finally understands their own PERSONAL POWER they begin to be able to make positive changes. They stop feeling and acting powerless. They begin to make good things happen in their lives.<o:p></o:p></div>
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With any health issue one should look at the function of the organ involved. In your case it is the breasts. Breasts are meant to nurture. But oftentimes women make the spiritual mistake of being overly concerned with nurturing or "care-taking" others. They put themselves second or even last most of the time. Their spiritual issue is often about<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>learning how to nurture themselves first--and when they feel that their inner child is happy...then...if they still have time and interest in doing so, they can nurture others as well. But it is of great spiritual importance to women in this day and age to realize that we have been living<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>for thousands of years in a world wide culture that said we should put men first--take care of them, then our children, then our parents, then people less fortunate than us...and then finally, if we had any time, love and energy left over..we could give ourselves something. This is NOT good.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Many women around the world are calling this a "patriarchal culture". It is not as things should be. Many women around the world are now starting to put themselves first--and this is as it should be. This is not basically political, but rather it is basically spiritual. It is the way things are meant to be. We are meant to put our selves first, then our children second, our mothers third, sisters after that and then the men in our families. Men must learn to stop using women so much as<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>servants and learn to take care of themselves more. It will be very good for them too.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Well, I hope that this is of some assistance to you.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Again, look for the thing that is bothering you the most, on the deepest level of feeling you can access. Consider that the beliefs behind the feeling may NOT be true. Try believing something that feels better to you and watch your feelings change. Then ACT on your new beliefs and feelings and watch your body become healthy!<o:p></o:p></div>
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Peace and Blessings<o:p></o:p></div>
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Website Owner: Brenda H. Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00850337192581910303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792745805491094050.post-13738973684565912542012-04-22T15:48:00.003-07:002012-06-23T10:47:12.240-07:00THE WORD IS SPREADING!Knowledge of the fact that a cure for cancer already exists is spreading around the world--not only from this website , but also from the many others offering similar information.<br />
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More and more people are learning about how to heal themselves from cancer--and all other illnesses as well. Once one knows how to heal from cancer, it is possible to use the basic methodology for anything else from a hang nail on up!<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: magenta;">Cutting right to the chase, if you want to heal from cancer:</span><br />
1. Get really honest with yourself about what is distressing you the most in your life (besides the cancer).<br />
2. Know that there is a central limiting belief <i>of yours</i> that is causing that distress. The root cause of the cancer lies there in that belief.<br />
3. Know that thus far you have resisted facing this positive truth fully and that parts of you may continue to resist, because they feel they will lose something important--but they won't! Have courage and faith!<br />
4. Turn the limiting belief 180 degrees to Truth and act on that truth, and HEALING WILL FOLLOW.<br />
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1. A wife and mother may feel very distressed by the fact that she is always caring for others (not herself) and she can never seem to give enough. She feels stressed out much of the time and over-extended. <i>And now she has breast cancer on top of everything else!</i><br />
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2. Her central <i>limiting</i> belief may be, that "extreme-giving is good." Or by extension: she must give more than she gets; or she must give more than she (her Inner Child) really wants to; or that it is better to give than to receive; or that mothers and wives are supposed to give until they are exhausted; or, it is good to be "hard worker"; or self- sacrifice is holy; or, unhappiness is natural in life, etc. <i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: magenta;">BUT, these are ALL limiting beliefs!</span></i><br />
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3. She (her adult-self) has resisted knowing that her Inner Child is screaming for attention, rest, self-care and self-nurturing. And, because she is not getting that for her Inner Child, the child-self is deeply resentful. A conflict has arisen between the Inner Child a more outer "self"--a cultural "adult" self--wants something different. Her culture (others) has taught her that it is GOOD to do all the above forms of extreme-giving. And she wants to feel like a good person. She wants approbation from others and from this adult-self who has absorbed her culture's values. <br />
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However, what others think of her is actually VASTLY less important than what the deeper parts of herself desire. The deepest parts are her Inner Child and her Entity Self. They are feeling-based-beings and her life will run smoother<i> and healthier</i> when she thinks/feels/does things that naturally make them happy.<br />
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She was born with an "emotional guidance system" that connected her to her Entity Self (ES) and to "True Values--" Universal Values that go beyond cultural fads. However, she has grown up now and is out of touch with much of her the power to act on the feelings her ES sends her. <i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: magenta;">Her culture has taught her to ignore her feelings to the point that she may not even <u>know</u> what she is really feeling. This is the biggest crime that can be perpetrated on a child.</span></i><br />
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What she now has left--for the most part-- are culturally induced feelings of self-approbation as well as whatever strokes from others she can allow. Thats all. She has learned to act on these adopted values in childhood, in order to feel good. However, these are secondary feelings brought about by her conformance to the expectations of others--and that often does not conform to "True Values," her Inner Child's desires or her Entity Self's desires. He is a wise being who really does know what is best for her. But he never pushes it on her. He always allows her free-will.<br />
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The feelings the conformance to culture brings about are not true, deep happiness. <b><i><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: magenta;">Pleasing one's deepest Self brings about true happiness and health--including healing from cancer.</span></u></i></b><br />
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So her first job is to allow her deepest feelings to arise. They still exist, but have become very quiet voices. The only way they could get her attention, in fact, was to add <i>physical</i> feelings of pain to her already intense emotional feelings of pain.<br />
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4. So her new belief could simply be "I come first. I will still have enough to give others at the right time and in the right way. My Inner Child will know when and how to do that --and she will feel <i>natural</i> pleasure doing it!" Then she must act on it--begin to find out what pleases her Inner Child and do it--often. That is the "saying YES" part--yes to her Inner Child and ES,<br />
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Saying NO to other people is the next part. That can be both frightening and liberating for her. The more she can <i>allow</i> herself her rights to self-care, the less negative feed back she will get from others; the more respect and support she will receive from them as well. Her new belief is based on "self esteem," "self-respect" and "dignity." And these are very attractive qualities to others. But MUCH more importantly, they are very pleasing to the Inner Child and the Entity Self.<br />
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As she begins to act on this new belief, her body will begin to heal quickly. The cancer will no longer be needed. For it was just a teacher/messenger all the time and she has divined its message--so he can now leave! (Fighting the messenger -- as mainstream medicine recommends--is always counterproductive.)<br />
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So Happy Healing! Try not to make it work. Just play at it.<br />
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BrendaWebsite Owner: Brenda H. Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00850337192581910303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792745805491094050.post-25706404513294284282012-03-19T13:21:00.002-07:002022-07-13T07:41:26.676-07:00HOW TO HEAL YOURSELF OF CANCERHere is the cancer brochure. A short and sweet description of the Vesica Piscis Method of Healing Cancer. However, if you feel you need help with these steps...y<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px;">ou can call Brenda Nelson for a telephone appointment at 207 443-3522. RATE: $60/hour. The fee can be negotiated if you are in financial need.</span><br />
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The Vesica Piscis Method is taught by Brenda H. Nelson, who has worked as a Psycho-Spiritual, Mind/Body Counselor since 1982. Her Ph.D. work was on the healing of cancer with the mind. Her approach is totally non-judgmental and deeply compassionate. She has healed herself of cancer and led others with cancer to self-healing as well--totally through changes in the mind. The source of all illness is in the mind. We are eternal beings of pure consciousness/spirit. What is in our consciousness affects our bodies for better or worse, from moment to moment. </div>
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<b>CANCER?</b></div>
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<b></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: red;">OF IT</span></div>
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<b>IF YOU COMPLETE THESE FOUR STATEMENTS BELOW, HONESTLY AND SPONTANEOUSLY...AND THEN DO THE FINAL ACTION STEP, </b><span style="color: #00aa00;"><b><i>YOU WILL BEGIN TO HEAL. I HAVE SEEN COMPLETE HEALING ACHIEVED IN AS LITTLE AS A WEEK.</i></b></span></div>
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<b><i>FINALLY, expect complete healing! And it will be yours.</i></b></div>Website Owner: Brenda H. Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00850337192581910303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792745805491094050.post-37210721951682854152012-02-22T17:17:00.000-08:002012-02-22T17:17:56.482-08:00AN OPEN LETTER TO "The International Cancer Conference"<span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">Dear Dr. Seltmann:</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">I saw on the evening news that your institute is hosting an international conference on cancer treatments in Germany.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">I wanted to get in touch with Dr. Arndt but cannot find an email address for him. Could you please forward this email to him? Thank you.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">__________________</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">What I want to say is simple. The cure for cancer is already here and known by many thousands of people. If one simply googles "Cancer Self-Healing" one is led to many stories of many people who have healed themselves of cancer. I am one of them. My story and my particular version of cancer self-healing is explained here at my website.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><a href="http://www.VesicaPicis.info/" style="color: #0000cc;" target="_blank">http://www.VesicaPicis.info</a></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">. I have led others to self-healing from cancer as well.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">No other allopathic, or alternative treatments are necessary other than what I outline below. All healings from cancer happen simply through a change in mind set. The change is usually not as complex or as intellectual as I make it below. The person simply had a revelation and changed some old limiting belief. Then they acted on a new expanding and positive belief--and healed! If that healing happened concurrently with other physical level treatments--allopathic or alterntive--the healng is usually attributed to them--but it is always accomplished through simply a change from old limiting beliefs and actions to new expansive beliefs and actions.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">In my best assessment, the way ANY healing from cancer takes place is through a positive change in consciousness, followed by new positive action. This happens...</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">1.... because there are only two things in the Universe--energy and consciousness</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">2. ...and because consciousness shapes energy into matter and events through the "Law of Attraction."</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">THEREFORE:</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">All human beings are ONLY pure consciousness that is shaping energy into good health or illness through the Law of Attraction.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">Health is created by aligning one's consciousness with Ultimate Spiritual Truth (UST) which is always positive.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">Illness-- including cancer--is created by being out of alignment with UST. In other words the consciousness has decided to entertain thoughts that are simply not true. Thoughts that are entertained often over a period of time become "beliefs." Positive beliefs that feel good create good health. Negative beliefs that have accompanying negative feelings produce ill health. When the negative thought is new and small, the ill health is small--a hangnail or sore throat-- for example. But the longer the negative thought is entertained, and the more energy is added to it--the more serious the threat to the health becomes. Entertained until the end the negative thought will literally finally kill the body.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">Cancer--in my experience and that of many other healers-- is caused by entertaining angry thoughts for a very long time that include projections of personal power out onto others. This leads to resentment and blame and hatred. Anger towards others is ALWAYS caused by an inappropriate projection of personal power onto them.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">We all have the same amount of "thought power." So it only SEEMS that someone else has done something to us that we did not allow. We all "ALLOW" everything that happens in our lives. There are no victims.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">The Universe sends us whatever we think about the most--consciously or unconsciously. This is called "The Law of Attraction."</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">NOT understanding this law allows us to think that other's have power over us.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">EG. The Jews had a "victim" mindset for a very long time before the holocaust (and since). However, in point of fact, Germany and the Jews CO-CREATED the holocaust together--one as perpetrator and one as victim. But BOTH WERE EQUALLY POWERFUL in creating this extremely negative event, through The Law of Attraction. Both were projecting power onto the other. They both feared each-other--and created a collective projection of personal power out onto the other. AND THAT IS SIMPLY NOT IN ALIGNMENT WITH UST.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">UST is always positive. The Universe allows us complete freedom to use our consciousness to creatively imagine anything--negative or positive. Positive thinking brings positive events. Negative thinking brings negative events.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">However, negative beliefs and emotions--even unconscious ones--most be brought up to the light of day and examined and felt first, before moving on incrementally towards UST and a full positive understanding of one's personal power.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">EXAMPLES FROM MY PRACTICE:</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">Myself: 30 years ago I was nurturing everyone but myself--and exhausting myself. I did nothing for myself. Due to my religious up-bringing I thought this was good and right--even though it did not feel good to do it to the extreme extent I was doing it. I developed breast cancer--the breast are a symbol of nurturance. I looked it up in Louise Hays simple and seminal work "Heal Your Body" and used her affirmation. Soon I stopped giving so much of myself away and started giving to myself much more. I felt much happier and the tumor disappeared rapidly--in a couple of weeks.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">CASE #2</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">I visited a wealthy older man in the hospital who had late stage prostate cancer. He had big control issues. He wanted to control his grown son's life--but could not and so was always VERY frustrated and angry. After we talked, he understood what he had been doing--projecting his own life onto his son's (and feeling powerless and emasculated). Once he understood, he stopped. I got him very interested in pursuing some old interests of his own that stimulated the right hemisphere of the brain (improvising on the piano, spending time in nature and making art). He started a new life. His anger and frustration turned into appreciation for his son's life and his own. The cancer was completely gone in less than a month--and with no further allopathic treatments.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">CASE # 3</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">A nurse came to me who had just been diagnosed with colon cancer--had X-rays that showed numerous polyps throughout her IT. She was scheduled to go for surgery in one week. We talked and I asked her, "What is bothering you most in your life right now?" She immediately told a story of a troublesome, bitter, blaming, twenty-two year old something son living in her home and not working, He was ruining her relationship with her boyfriend. She was very angry but had not realized it--had not allowed it. Had felt guilty and responsible for the young man's unhappiness, because she had divorced his dad. She expressed her anger in my office, by beating on some pillows. Afterwards, I gave her an affirmation to say that supported her self love and her right to put herself first. Then she went home and "laid down the law" to her son. She told him he was to make a plan for his new life and move out in 30 days. She came back to me a week later--after having seen the doctor. At this second visit he had taken one more X-ray--and was astounded to find that it was completely clear! Not a single polyp. She had had no other treatment during that one week between the two X-rays.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">She had only changed an old limiting belief (that she needed to sacrifice her own happiness for her son's) to a positive one (that she had the right to put her own happiness first). Then based on her new belief she changed her actions and her life. And by doing so she moved into alignment with UST--which is always on our side, and which always makes us feels good when we do it.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">That is how cancer (or any illness) is healed. I hope Dr. Arndt and you will share this information at the conference this week--at least as a viable theory to entertain. Thank you.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">Sincerely Yours,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br />
</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">Brenda H. Nelson</span>Website Owner: Brenda H. Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00850337192581910303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792745805491094050.post-83491440064595548692012-01-26T20:34:00.000-08:002016-06-15T09:32:12.577-07:00NEW! SELF HEALING STORY #1--CORN MAIDENI Had been successfully using self-healing methods on myself and with my counseling clients for a few years when I came across my first cancer case. This was back in 1977. James (I will call him) was in the hospital with an advanced case of liver cancer. His wife took me to visit him there.<br />
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They were a wealthy older couple with two grown children and a large extended family. They had a year 'round home on the ocean with a large family compound comprised of several old New England homes where other members of their family came to stay off and on.<br />
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But the patriarch was in the later stages of cancer and his wife and the rest of the family were open to trying anything at that point. So they called me in. At that time little was known about Mind/Body healing among the general public.<br />
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So I arrived at the hospital room as "Corn Maiden", so to speak. Not in costume but bearing with me an ear of fresh corn. I also brought a copy of Louise Hay's seminal work--<u>Heal Your Body</u>--and my own small treatise on <u>Self-Healing Skills</u> (available soon at this website.)<br />
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I first explained to him that all illnesses come from the mental level of our being first. They arise in response to a limiting belief we have adopted that does not "nourish" us spiritually. Certain negative emotions then precipitate out of those limiting beliefs.<br />
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With the ear of corn I demonstrated to him that in order to get to the spiritual food he needed, we would have to peel away the now unnecessary layers of limiting beliefs--the leaves of protection he had needed for a certain type of growth. Those beliefs I pointed out may have served him for a while, perhaps to shield him while he grew to a place where he could face the cob, containing many associated kernals of truth at the center of his psyche. When one is not ready to face the truth, however, it is premature to peel away those leaves. The kernals will be unripe and will not serve as nourishment. <br />
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So I invited him to contemplate the leaves of protection that he might have. The leaves will be things that bother oneself about others usually. They are issues that belong to us, things about ourselves we don't like, but are unwilling to face. We project them away from ourself to protect our self. They are actually projections from one's own limiting beliefs about one's self. So it's nothing to be ashamed of.<br />
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We are all perfectly imperfect. Look at a forest. Is there a perfect tree there? No. Some seem healthier than others, but all have flaws. God made them all, and people like trees are all imperfect to a degree. It's allowed. It's needed. But noticing our limitations and asking for something better and expecting it is very important too. It allows the Universe to expand. So trees and people allow the useless to drop away and be recycled in the ground of our collective being ( the earth as it were), and in the right season we grow new branches or leaves. And eventually we die and transform to something that has gained a great deal from our experience in life. <br />
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But, I pointed out to him, first we see our limitations in others. They are mirrors for us. So I then asked him. "What is it about others that bothers you most?" I suggested he look for a thread running through all of the people over his lifetime that had upset, or frightened or saddened him... or perhpas just annoyed him. What it was about them. Was there a lowest common denominator that pulled them together?<br />
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Then when he seemed ready the protective layers that he had built up around that sore place and to face the truth with courage, I invited him to look COMPASSIONATELY at what he had been seeing in others that might really also be about him. Then I left.<br />
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It was only a few days later that James called me and asked me to to visit him again in the hospital. This time I brought with my dowsing rods. I can see people's aura's but I used dowsing rods then to show people their own aura's (electromagnetic field.) They were quite effective at first. I no longer use them and do not recommend them or other similar tools of divination for reasons I will speak about in another blog.<br />
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When I arrived, I immediately noticed that his aura was larger and his color was better already. I had hardly taken a seat when he said he had identified the main problem in his life and had been contemplating how it might be affecting him emotionally. I could tell he had made some distinctive progress already. And truth be told, all the information about self-healing is available within ourselves--without needing anyone else to lead us...but outside guidance can be helpful.<br />
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I sat down next to his hospital bed and soon he was unburdening himself to me about the problem he had identified. He said that he had been very worried about his adult children--especially his son. He had many fears abut his career. However, his son (and others in his large family) would take no advice from him. This left him feeling powerless and angry. But he was beginning to realize that he needed to let go of them and allow them to make their own decisions and the best thing he could do was just love them unconditionally--and stop worrying about them. I agreed completely and added that our fears for those we love actually increase the likelihood of their experiencing just what we don't want for them.<br />
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I also emphasized that we all live in a safe and loving Universe which turns every crisis into a positive opportunity for spiritual growth. I also added that we each have an Entity Self who is there to act as a guardian angel to us if we call on them. So simply knowing that would help him and his children to relax more and to begin to bring more positive outcomes to themselves.<br />
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It was largely a control issue for him. His ego mind felt that he had to struggle for control over his son in order to protect him. He deeply resented that his son would not allow him any control over his life, or listen to any advice. (This was quite understandable since, in fac,t the son was doing very well in every way. But the father had been a super achiever and his son did not quite measure up to his unreasonable standards.<br />
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So realizing that it was not his responsibility and not really within his power to help his son in the way he had been trying, was a great relief to him. Then father and son sat down and had a very cathartic heart to heart talk that improved their relationship tremendously.<br />
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James was so improved after that-- in both appearance and demeanor-- that his doctors decided to send him home for a while. He and his family were overjoyed--as was I.<br />
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I then had a couple of more suggestions for him to try out at home.<br />
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To help further his new positive direction I invited him to focus more on himself --on his own enjoyment of life. I asked what he had liked doing when he was younger? "Play the piano." He stated quickly. Then I asked him what he liked to play and he shared that he loved classical music. I asked if he had played much in recent years and learned that he had not. So I suggested that he take it up again, daily--and that he add creating his own original music to his repertoire. Any artistic expression done in free form is extremely healing.<br />
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I also suggested that he go out each day that there was good weather and sit under a giant oak tree that stood on his large property (one that included both ocean beach and forest.) He did this as well.<br />
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About a week later he returned to the hospital as an outpatient for further testing--and was totally amazed when he received the results of that a while later. HE WAS COMPLETELY CLEAR OF ALL CANCER!<br />
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Unfortunately, the doctors convinced him to have further radiation and chemotherapy, by saying that some few cancer cells <i>might</i> be "lurking" and hiding--even though they could see none-- and they needed to destroy them all. Both his family and I advised against such debilitating treatments. But he allowed himself to be swayed by the doctors and underwent the unnecessary (to my mind) treatments, which turned his hand black where they administered the chemicals, and made him quite ill.<br />
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However, once they were done, he quickly regained his full health and the cancer never returned.Website Owner: Brenda H. Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00850337192581910303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792745805491094050.post-52208325902272072232012-01-02T18:30:00.000-08:002012-01-02T18:30:07.422-08:00COMMENTS GRATEFULLY RECEIVEDI need to know what you are thinking and feeling about this website in order to improve it. I know much more than I have yet presented here. What question do you have in your heart and mind right now? Even if it is a negative comment--please share it with me.Website Owner: Brenda H. Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00850337192581910303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792745805491094050.post-22267704607569780432012-01-02T17:51:00.000-08:002012-01-08T11:40:42.778-08:00NEWS FLASH! CHINESE PSYCHIATRIST CURES CANCERRenowned Chinese psychiatrist, Tien-Sheng Hsu is using psycho-spiritual methods to cure cancer. His work--like mine--is based, in part, on the information we both gathered from the Seth books, as channeled by Jane Roberts. Our major premises are the same. See more about him at <a href="http://drhsu.seth101.com/category/exercises/">http://drhsu.seth101.com/category/exercises/</a>. Read more of my comments on his techniques at the page entitled "CANCER CURES OF OTHERS."Website Owner: Brenda H. Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00850337192581910303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792745805491094050.post-41098540326423055952011-12-09T07:35:00.000-08:002018-12-02T13:13:33.173-08:00VESICA PISCIS METHOD OF HEALING CANCER<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b>The brochure below</b> can be down-loaded and printed out, for you to disseminate. It describes a Cancer Self-Healing process that </span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">really</span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"> works. See the Page "</span><a href="http://vesicapiscisinfo.blogspot.com/p/true-stories-of-healing-from-cancer-by.html"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Personal Stories</span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">"(under construction), in this website, for examples of self-healing stories. And please add your own self-healing, or alternative healing story in the "Comments" section at the very bottom of this page--(scroll past a lot of white.)</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">and got stuck in the at question #2 about "EMOTIONS," (see below) please click on this link, "</span><a href="http://vesicapiscisinfo.blogspot.com/p/what-am-i-feeling.html"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">What Am I Feeling</span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">?" Or click on the same words above in the "pages" bar.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b>Feel free to download and disseminate this brochure</b>. You are encouraged to use this brochure as the foundation for your own healing and when you have achieved that, to use it to start holding your own </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">VESICA PISCIS HEALING EVENTS </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">for others as well.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Such events, while serious, will have something of a "party" air to them. This may sound like an odd thing to call a gathering which addresses such as a subject as cancer. However, one of our major allies in our efforts to self-heal from cancer--(which I have done myself--see <a href="http://vesicapiscisinfo.blogspot.com/p/my-story-self-healing-from-cancer.html">My Story</a> )-- is the <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: magenta;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: cyan;">INNER CHILD</span></span>. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">The fact that anyone has cancer tells me that their inner child needs more nurturing. She needs to have this healing method presented in a way that she enjoys! Thus I offer a " party" element as well as an educational element. The events are meant not only to be fun--for the child, but also highly informative--for the intellect. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">The inner child will be offered food, music, dance, singing, art and games at times--all with a view to healing the cancer. Of course, each individual will always have complete freedom to reject any process that is not comfortable for them. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">The inner child is a very wise aspect of ourselves and KNOWS why you have cancer. However, she needs playful creative ways to express what she knows. (Click <a href="http://vesicapiscisinfo.blogspot.com/p/inner-child-and-healing-cancer.html">here</a> for more on her.)</span><br />
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<b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">These POSITIVE support groups <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal;">will be formed as they are requested.</span> </span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">These will offer a process for people with cancer who want to explore a non-invasive, no cost, deeply healing process together with others. Email me at brendahnelson@gmail.com if you are interested in starting one or joining one. </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">These gatherings are positive and </span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">COMPASSIONATE</span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"> gatherings. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">In order to heal, first negative emotions must be uncovered and fully allowed. After fully feeling them there will be an appropriate time (as determined by the individual) to <i>release</i> those feelings and to reach for a more positive thought or belief--even if it just a little more energy in it. Slowly--or quickly--one can nudge oneself up a ladder of emotions from utter despair to peace--or eventually </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">even to <i>joy! As this happens, healing happens.</i></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"> </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">But the general purpose of the Vesica Piscis Healing Event is to go through the steps outlined in the brochure and the information below--in a playful way--and even feeling deep long hidden feelings and "knowings" can be-- if not playful-- then at least cathartic, if it happens in a supportive environment. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Kuan Yin, in Chinese Buddhism is the one who is, </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 19px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"> </span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 19px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">"</span></span><a class="mw-redirect" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vipassana" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: initial; background-image: none; background-origin: initial; text-decoration: none;" title="Vipassana"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;">Observing</span></span></span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"> the Sounds (or Cries) of the </span></span><a class="mw-redirect" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Samsara" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: initial; background-image: none; background-origin: initial; text-decoration: none;" title="Samsara"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;">World</span></span></span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">"</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"> (Wikipedia). </span>And a Vesica Piscis Healing Event is extremely supportive and compassionate. The leaders are totally non-judgmental about any information that an individual shares--no matter how shocking in the usual sense. Leaders can be counted on to provide a non-judgmental environment. One of the most common misunderstandings about self-healing is the idea that people are being blamed for their own illness. This is a trick of the rational mind. There is no blame implied anywhere in this process--even while it teaches the amazing power everyone holds for healing themselves. By extension, if a participant is unable to use the skills as soon as they believe they "should" this again could be understood to be just the rational mind setting up a deadline, when an attitude of relaxed flow is much more useful. The intellect and rational mind are not being judged either. But recognition of some of its limiting predispositions is important.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b><i>If you are not sure what you are feeling underline on or more of the following emotions:</i></b></span></div>
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anger, resentment</div>
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fear, anxiety, stress, pressure</div>
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sadness, grief,</div>
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depression, </div>
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guilt, remorse</div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b><i>If you feel like, “I don’t know. I just feel <i>bad</i>.” OR “I don’t have any strong feelings.” Go to the "What Am I Feeling Page at this website and do the more detailed process there.</i></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b><i> <b>2. IDENTIFY WHAT YOU </b><span style="font-family: "lucida bright"; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;"><b><i>DON’T</i></b></span><b> WANT IN YOUR LIFE </b>(some problem that may have begun about 2 years before the onset of the cancer.)</i></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b><i><b>“I feel the emotion identified in step 1 because of the following negative situation... (a situation OTHER than the cancer.)</b></i></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b><i><b>3. IDENTIFY WHAT YOU </b><span style="font-family: "lucida bright"; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;"><b><i>DO</i></b></span><b> WANT. </b>(A positive action step--that may feel both energizing and a little scary)</i></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b><i><b>“Because of the above problem I would <i>like</i> to...</b></i></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b><i>______________________________________________________________________________________________________________</i></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b><i><b>4. IDENTIFY POSSIBLE BLOCKS. </b></i></b></span></div>
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<b><i><span style="font-size: small;"><b><i><b>“I haven’t done this before because I used to believe...</b>.”</i></b></span></i></b></div>
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(perhaps only up until a moment ago)</div>
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5. <b>CREATE AN AFFIRMATION: Make it a short statement that is the antithesis of the above negative beliefs. ______________________________________________________________________________________________________</b></div>
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<b>then....</b></div>
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Believe your affirmation</div>
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Repeat it often</div>
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Write it often</div>
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Think, speak and act in terms of your new belief.</div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b><i>AND...Expect complete healing! AND YOU <span style="color: red;">WILL </span>HEAL!</i></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;"><b>Additional steps</b> that can assist your healing: ( I will be writing separate pages to further explain the following:)</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;">Meditation</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;">Connectiing With Your Entity Self (your ES)</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;">Altering the Past Exercise</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;">Altering the Future Exercise</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;">Practicing Forgiveness, Allowing and Acceptance</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;">Diet, Herbs, Exercise and other physical level support</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b><i><b><i><b><i><span style="font-size: small;"><b>FOR MORE ASSISTANCE YOU CAN...</b></span></i></b></i></b></i></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Do the steps outlined in the further exercises on the other "Pages" of this websiteht http://vesicapiscis.info</span></div>
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<b><i><b><i>Read my forthcoming book, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">The Vesica Piscis Healing Method: The Cure Steve Jobs Almost Found!</span></i></b></i></b></div>
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Website Owner: Brenda H. Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00850337192581910303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792745805491094050.post-52399050025662312942011-12-08T15:54:00.000-08:002011-12-09T11:45:31.469-08:00WHAT AM I FEELING?If you have read the Vesica Piscis Self Healing From Cancer Brochure and got stopped in your tracks by question 2 about identifying emotions...AND... you are not sure what you are feeling. Or you just need help identifying what you are feeling--read on...<br />
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Or if you think you are just happy and easy going all the time, BUT YOU DO HAVE CANCER...know that there are some disturbing emotion and awareness that has been pushed into the subconscious. The body always accurately reflects the condition of the spirit or mind--both conscious <i><b><u>and subconscious</u></b></i>. But the subconscious material is not all that hard to uncover as some therapies might suggest. Several ways of accessing it are shared in this blog. And I will be adding more later.<br />
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WHEN CONSIDERING THIS UNCONSCIOUS MATERIAL KNOW THAT ONE PART OF YOU--OR SELF--IS AFRAID OF KNOWING WHAT IS THERE--EVEN WHILE ANOTHER PART OF YOU WANTS TO KNOW.<br />
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So you can use the Vesica Piscis symbol and process to dissolve that conflict and find out what both parts of you are wanting at the bottom--which is always the same thing.<br />
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Keep in mind as you read this that while we do in fact create the mental and emotional conditions that allow for cancer and other illnesses, WE ARE NOT TO BLAME! No one is blaming you! Do not judge yourself for having cancer and know that no one else is either. Have compassion for yourself as I have compassion for you. It is challenging to face a truth we have been afraid of. But I guarantee you, once uncovered you will be relieved! THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE!<br />
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This entire posting is an exercise for you to try and get past step 2 of the brochure which can be accessed at the main page of this website.<br />
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<b>Many Selves</b><br />
First of all you need to know that we are made up of several selves--or so it feels to us when we look closely at ourselves. Imagine yourself as a bus traveling down the highway of life with several people on board--several different parts of yourself. Here are some of the cast of characters who might be on board and that you need to understand a bit better in order to discover: what you are feeling, where the inner conflict is between selves, and how to heal yourself of cancer.<br />
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<ul><li>We have an <b>Ego</b>, who usually is the spokes-person for our whole self--as adults in Western Culture. He is the one usually driving the bus and is often a real control freak. He likes separation and individuality. But others do jump into the drivers seat from time to time and take the bus where<i> they </i>want to go. </li>
<li>For instance <b>The Divine Child Self </b>may occasionally take the wheel, but usually only when the Ego is too tired to care about trying to drive anymore. S/He is the part of us who was driving the bus most of the time when we were a baby or a young child. But as we grew older we allowed the ego to drive more and more often. Our Divine Child is our closest aspect to Our God Self. S/He feels Oneness, "groupness" and compassion easily. S/He loves animals and Nature. Loves to play. S/He is highly creative and innovative. S/he loves to make art, to dance, to sing etc.--but does not like being told how to do that. She likes to improvise--that is allow her Soul to inform her as to what she would like to do next and how to do it.She is a positively emotional self--and is very powerful for having that gift.</li>
<li>There may also be a <b>Wounded Child Self</b> and s/he likes to poke a stick into the spokes of the ego's plans. S/he feels so dissed, so powerless and so angry that her only sense of power is to be able to mess other people up--or her own Ego self. She tends to feel like a victim, and is sometimes self righteous about it if she still has access to her anger. But if she does not, then she just looks like a victim--even of herself. This child is also emotional--but in a negative way.</li>
<li>The Body Self has it's own consciousness, which is closely connected to the soul and emotions.</li>
<li>There can be many others: a parent self, an adult child self, an employee, or employer self, a friend self, a spouse self, a sibling self--etc. These categories can also be broken down into positive and negative aspects.</li>
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<b>Using The VP Symbol </b><br />
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So consider this Vesica Piscis symbol above. Copy it onto a sheet of paper making the diameter about 5 inches across with two overlapping smaller circles within. Then make a list of all the different "selves" you can identify. Consider which ones might be in conflict. When you have selcted two who might be in conflict, place their titles inside of the two smaller circles on a diagram you have drawn of the VP symbol above. <br />
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The following is an example of a pretty common conflict between the Ego Self and The Divine Child Self.<br />
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<b>Example: </b><br />
On Monday morning your Divine Child Self may not want to get out of bed. S/He might be luxuriating under the covers, almost purring with delight with each roll to a new position, with each dream feeling recalled. Then suddenly the Ego wakes up too and reminds her that they must go to work! For a brief moment the Wounded Child Self may take the drivers seat and you will feel terrible--like life is victimizing you. Then the Body Self may grab the seat for a second too. And he says, "I feel so-tired. I can feel a sore throat coming on. I want to stay in bed all day." However, the so-called "responsible" Ego Self grabs the seat and announces, "We HAVE to go to work!" And off he drives.<br />
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So, for a few minutes there may have been a terrible conflict--between The Ego Self on one side and the three weaker selves on the other side. So in this example you would put the ego on the right side and the three other selves on the left--within the two smaller circles of the diagram. I chose a small example of a conflict, which in and of itself cannot cause cancer. However, if this SORT of thing happens often with large and small issues--where the intellect or ego is always over-riding the intuitive child self--then it points to what is a much larger problem.<br />
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We are at a point in human history where we are being challenged--and challenging ourselves--to begin to take better care of our inner child. She is much wiser than the adult in many ways. S/he is closely connected to the God Self who always wants us to stop doing things THAT DON'T FEEL GOOD! She wants us to trust that we will be safer if we just do stuff that feels good. That is the bottom line of how to use the emotions as a "Guidance System." This is from Abraham as channeled by Esther Hicks.<br />
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<b>What am I Feeling? </b><br />
So let's say you are still not clear as to what the dominant negative emotion is that you<i> may </i>have experienced for about 2 years prior to your diagnosis (but it may be shorter or longer than 2 yrs.)<br />
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What you can do now is think again about what seems to not be working in your life. What situation or person makes you feel bad when they come to mind? Is it school? work? marriage? other relationship? Who and what in your life makes you feel the worst now. When did it begin and what were the circumstances? You may have to watch closely and grab it fast--before a well-meaning self slaps a happy face on it and you lose the underlying emotional reality of something negative going on.<br />
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<b>Another Exercise</b><br />
If you still cannot access a negative emotion try this exercise in expanding your understanding.<br />
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<ol><li><b>Understand</b> that when something is too painful or frightening for us to face, we may push it into our subconscious minds. The subconscious is really just a collection of thoughts and events that we have sent to the "Trash Folder," on our life desk-top, to put it in computer language. Or you sent these feelings and thoughts to the landfill to be buried. Both are still accessible to the conscious mind, with a some work. But we have thus far chosen to look away from that uncomfortable smelly stuff. Maybe we choose to believe that we are flexible, cheerful people and those negative events just rolled off us like water off a duck's back. "Nothing bothers me!" "I am happy go-lucky, and flexible." "Or I am really strong and just suck it up when life gives me lemons." <:* (puckered mouth).</li>
<li> Understand too that negative feelings may be so systemic and/or powerful, and we may feel it so constantly and so terribly, that it may have become our default demeanor and almost impossible to see. We can't see the forest because all those trees are in the way. We can't see the larger shape of the problem.</li>
<li>Understand that <i>many</i> people experience trauma in childhood--of sexual trauma--that they bury in their subconscious minds. They have throoughly forgotten it--it would seem. It was too painful to experience fully at the time and so it had to go in the "trash" bin. Called, dissociation. But now that we are older, with help and support, we <i>can</i> handle knowing what happened. It may be upsetting for awhile, but it is better to get to know the wounded child who keeps sticking her stick into the spokes of our success-wheel all the time and keeping us from having, doing and being what we want...like a cancer-free body. Yes, those festering rotting hidden emotions in the trash grow into tumors and such. If we don't pay attention to the stench and clean up the old mess, the rot may become so pervasive and systemic--throughout our being--that we slide into ever increasing ill health and finally death. But then we are reborn into another happier reality--so it is not a big deal in a way.</li>
<li>So ask yourself if it is most likely you are a "trauma-stuffer" or a "happy-face plasterer." They are both the same really. Just two different ways of avoiding unpleasant truths.</li>
<li>Next just KNOW--that the old dictum "THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE" is absolutely true. Believe it and see if saying the following affirmations for a while doesn't free up the log jam in your emotions and in your body. Try something like "I am willing to know the truth behind my illness." And I am willing to heal." Say and write them often until they become like a mantra. It will allow the Universe to send you the information you need...just as it sent you here? If you are into prayer--then pray for truth and freedom. </li>
<li>When you get the answer pray for the strength to use it. Allow yourself to feel all your feelings fully for a while. As they begin to wane, try to move yourself up the scale of emotions below by one notch.</li>
<li>Finally, when you get the picture of what emotions you have been avoiding and what the conflict is in your life that is related to the emotions--put them on your drawing of the Vesica Piscis that you made above. Put the negative emotions and aspect and part of the situation on the right and the positive on the left. </li>
</ol><b>Another Way to Access the Emotions Behind the Cancer. </b><br />
This is an advanced process. It helps if you know how to meditate. But basically, sit in a quiet place and allow yourself to relax deeply. As you take three deep breaths say to yourself : #1, "mind relax." #2, "emotions relax," #3 "body relax." Allow yourself to slide down deeply towards sleep, but hovering just above it. Then direct your full awareness into the place where the cancer is. If you are feeling pain, go deeply and fully into the pain. As you do this allow any emotions and images and thoughts to come up. <br />
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Those emotions are the ones that point to the basic limiting belief that you need to let go of in order to heal. Ask yourself, "What belief led me to feel this way?<br />
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Going back to your Vesica Piscis diagram, put the negative emotion on the right and its positive antithesis on the left. (Or which ever side feels right to you.) Then do the same with the negative belief and its antithesis. Then consider, if there is a loving God--and there is--who sent me this disease in order to garner greater spiritual wisdom...what could I learn from these opposites. What are both sides trying to lead me to that is in the middle. What is the lowest-common- denominator-desire behind the selves who hold these conflicting beliefs and emotions.<br />
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<b>Another Way to Access Subconscious Emotions or Repressed Material...DREAMS.</b><br />
Our dreams are wonderful sources of truth. I suggest that you read Dr. Gayle Delaney's book, <u>Living Your Dreams. </u> Or watch for more information on using your dreams to heal cancer at this website--but on a separate page entitled "DREAMS AS HEALERS."<br />
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One quick method is called "Dream Incubation". You simply get a dream journal and pen. Write down the question: "What emotion is causing this cancer." Say it to yourself three times as you fall asleep. Write down whatever dream you recall when you awaken. If you don't recall a dream, write down the first thoughts and feelings that you became aware of as you awoke.<br />
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<b>The Third Way</b> <br />
So now we are in the space in between--in the center of the Vesica Piscis. In there lies the answer to your healing. The "center" is where we al want to be. It is the place of the most positive power.<br />
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Meditate on all that you have learned so far. Trust that there is a common ground of mutual benefit for all elements that seem to be in conflict. There is a way to solve this problem or dilemma if you keep looking for it and knowing it is there. Know that simply by giving thanks for the "conflict" and even the cancer-- that is simply a symbol of un-addressed psycho-spiritual issues--you will begin to make big strides in healing and that healing can be very rapid. I have seen complete healing of cancer happen in a month, a week, a couple of days...YES. Cancer is not hard to heal when you know:<br />
<ol><li>WHERE to look--WITHIN--on the mental-emtoional level of your being</li>
<li>HOW to look--using the Vesica Piscis Method</li>
<li>WHEN to look--if an illness as serious as cancer is showing up, your soul is telling you that you are over due for facing the truth and changing some pet negative belief that has stopped you from moving ahead in life. There would have been other negative events earlier on that were not as lethal--an accident, a painful relationship etc. Each time we ignore a clue and skate past a maturation point without doing the work, the soul sends us something yet more difficult to deal with--not as punishment--but rather just as stronger incentive to let go of some negative limiting belief and to adopt a new positive expanding one--the antithesis of the negative.</li>
</ol>EMOTIONS:<br />
<ul><li>fear, anxiety, terror</li>
<li>apathy, depression</li>
<li>grief, sadness, despair, hopelessness</li>
<li>anger, rage, resentment</li>
<li>jealousy, covetousness, snarky belittling behavior, competitiveness</li>
<li>shame</li>
<li>meanness</li>
<li>desire for revenge</li>
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Many Blessings for you in your work/play--and do make it as playful as possible--enjoy your tears or rage and your new revelations--AND YOUR HEALING!<br />
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If you don't achieve healing as soon as you think you should and are getting discouraged. Just leave the process for a while. Go back to affirming that healin will come to you at the right time. Know that this process does work. There are no failures associated with it. But there may be temporary delays. Do not judge yourself, the process or me for that matter. For all the keys are in here--just be patient and persistent, when spirit moves you to try and go deeper with this.<br />
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Blessings,<br />
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BrendaWebsite Owner: Brenda H. Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00850337192581910303noreply@blogger.com0