WHY CHILDREN GET CANCER
There are basically three reasons why children get cancer. These will not be found in any information from conventional pediatric oncology.
- The cancer is based on spiritual issues brought in from a past life.
- They have picked up cancer-producing issues that belong more to their parents.
- They chose, before they were born to have this illness and to perhaps die, in order to bring about the possibility for spiritual growth in those around them. This is a form of martyrdom.
NUMBER 1: Past Life Issues
We
are all eternal spirits. We have lived many past lives and although we
understand the big picture in between lives, when we reincarnate we
usually forget that big picture. The Soul Personality Self carries with
it the powers it has gained from having resolved spiritual issues it
faced in past lives, but it also carries with those that are yet
unresolved.
We
don't need to resolve all our issues in one life. We usually choose one
major one to work on. Then we project our consciousness into the foetus
which is waiting for us, are born, and begin to forget who we really
are--God! As Wordsworth put it, we come in trailing clouds of glory. But
as many OB/GYN nurses report, you can see the futures of the babies in
their faces and their demeanor--as soon as they are born. A sensitive
person can read the intentions of that soul in a general kind of way.
So
a child comes into this life and as s/he grows s/he forgets more and
more that s/he is God--and will be so all of her life whether she
remembers this fact or not. YOU are god! S/he also might begin to deal
with karmic issues very early--issues that The Law of Attraction is
bringing to her--issues that are unresolved from past lives.
NUMBER 2: Parental Influence
S/he
is also picking up more and more of the beliefs of the people around
her/him; for every child is very psychic and reads the minds and true
feelings of those around her--despite any lies the adults are
telling--and adults DO often lie to children about what they are
actually feeling. This is extremely confusing to the child and makes
them feel very insecure! It should be avoided at all costs. So the child
does not know what to make of this conflict between what she knows the
adult is feeling and the lie the adult is telling her. God is Truth, and
the child is very close to her God-Self. S/he expects her parents to be
like God. But they aren't. So s/he simply absorbs the lies and
struggles to make sense of them in terms of the God's Truth that lies
within her. It is very confusing for every child. This kind of conflict
begins to cause mental, emotional and physical problems (illness or
accidents).
So
the child is extremely receptive and picks up, from the adults around
her/him the negative beliefs and the emotions that precipitate from
them. First you have a belief and that belief, if it is in alignment
with Ultimate Spiritual Truth (UST) feels good to you. If the new belief
is out of alignment with UST it makes you feel bad.
Negative
beliefs and the negative emotions they engender, whether born of
deductions the child herself has made, or whether they are absorbed
wholly from the family and others close to them, will begin to impact
the body in a negative way--just as they are in the others. However, the
child being more receptive may display the symptoms sooner than an
adult will. In any case negative beliefs and their precipitate emotions
constrict the flow of energy through the body. And then in that weakened
state, the negative belief beings to manifest as a physical thing--a
tumor or distorted cells.
Science
has already proven that thoughts are transmuted within the hypothalamus
of the brain into physical form--chemicals that act as messengers that
tell the cells of the body what to do: eg create health OR create a
tumor, or odd blood cells, or whatever. I would ad that thoughts that
are in alignment with UST produce health and those that are not produce
illness eventually.
However,
the adults around a child with cancer can bring that child back to
health by looking within themselves for the chronic--oftentimes hard to
see--emotions that feel bad to them: eg anger, resentment, jealousy,
hatred, fear, sadness, guilt etc. The ego mind oftentimes does not like
to face emotions and so it avoids them. But that does not make them go
away. The ego mind also often wrongly believes that they must cling to
their mental miscontructions. They connect up together various beliefs
in a way that form a gestalt--not unlike the web-like structure of many
cancers.
For
example, a woman may be angry at her husband who is cruel to her. But
she has a belief that says that showing anger is dangerous. So she
suppresses it and transmutes it into sadness or pitifulness and feelings
of powerlessness. Denied natural anger always leads to a feeling of
powerlessness. This sense of powerlessness might lead to a belief that
she needs her husband, who appears strong, even while being cruel. So if
she rids herself of her husband she will lose strength she believes she
needs. She has all the strength she needs within herself, but she
doesn't believe this yet. So the two limiting beliefs--anger is
dangerous--and I need my husband around in order to experience strength
in my life-- have combined into a gestalt and they weill begin to breed
other negative limiting beliefs. For example she might begin to believe
she is worthless, or the cause of his anger (which will cause guilt in
her).
No
one is responsible for anyone else's feelings. We all create our own
reality. A population of various people all undergoing the same
experience caused by another person, will have a myriad of various
emotional responses to it and that person. So the person himself cannot
be the cause. He may have acted as a stimulus, but each individual
reacts in a different way.
So
Let's say a young child has a mother who feels victimized by a cruel
husband, the child's father. The mother underneath may be carry a lot of
anger which over time has devolved into a deep resentment. The father
likewise might be projecting power and responsibility out onto the
mother, and feeling angry and resentful towards her. The war, however,
is not between them, but ORIGINALLY in side of each of them--due to
their own beliefs.
If
however, both are in denial of those inner wars--and maybe the outer
too, then there will be a tremendous force of emotion building up within
each and between each and it will affect all members of the family.
However, while the un-faced feelings caused by the
out-of-alignment-beliefs of the adults will be picked up on by all of
the children, there may be one that is more receptive and vulnerable.
That child may develop cancer--for the whole family.
It
is a well known fact in "Family Systems" psychology, that when one
member of a family is "acting out" -- and cancer is most definitely a
form of "acting out" then that one member, often a child, is seen by the
family as "the problem," the therapists sees that child as simply being
the one who is displaying the presenting symptoms, but that the whole
family is in need of therapy and healing.
Health
professionals would do well to look at a child with cancer in the same
way. That child will be carrying the illness-responsibility for the
whole family. The whole family is sick and the parents are usually the
best place to start in searching for the root causes of the child's
cancer.
This
is, of course, very difficult for parents to face--that they might be
the cause of their child's illness! Impossible! The thought does not
bear thinking. And so they deny it. But this is one of the most
dangerous tricks of the ego mind--which is the part of the psyche most
people plunk their "I" in. They would do better to place their I in
their Entity Self. Nut more on that later.
For
now, a good therapist or healer of any sort would assist the parents
ego minds to not put their head in the sand because their self esteem
feels threatened. This can be accomplished by telling them that everyone
truly does create their own reality--including babies and small
children. So on some higher level, the child accepted the challenge of
carrying the burden of cancer for the family. So the parents, while not
feeling like they are the sole cause of the child's illness, can look at
their role in it without losing self esteem. We are all perfectly
imperfect. The UNiverse has arranged everything beautifully so that even
while one accepts and listens to the intial warning signals of natural
guilt, they do not get lost in excessive, ego mind self blame or
cultural and religious ideas of right and wrong and sin.
Once
the adults around a child with cancer can accept their role in the
child's illness, they can look bravely within themselves and ask--what
is bothering me. They can go through the steps listed below with great
courage and full belief in FREE-GIVENESS (replacing "forgiveness," from
God and from themselves. They can face the truth of their own emotions
and can dig behind them for the causal negative beliefs. These beliefs
can then be flipped to their positive polar opposite. This will natural
create a well-spring of new positive emotions flowing freely. (and
anger, relatiive to powerlessness, is a positive emotion) These emotions
and new beliefs can then be used to bring about a change action and
direction i the life of the adults. With that the child is very likely
to heal spontaneously.
NUMBER 3: Martyrdom
The
child and the family gestalt, before leaving higher levels of reality
and consciousness may have agreed that, at a certain point in their
family life, for various reasons, the death of one of their children
would likely stimulate spiritual growth in the rest of the family. The
child agrees to be the martyr on that higher level. Very likely none
will recall their higher intentions once they have arrived in this lower
level of reality.
So
the child gets the illness and dies in order to give the family the
opportunity to grow spiritually in specific ways. Sometimes the nature
of the challenge can be discerned before the child dies; the family can
make the spiritual changes they desire; and the child might possibly
recover. But most often the child has chosen to live only a short life
this time. So the only recourse for families with a child that is
experiencing cancer is to do their best to face and feel their
emotions--about everything--honestly, to look for the limiting beliefs
behind the negative feelings, and to institute changes on the level of
action...and see what happens. The child may heal. But whether or not
s/he does, the family will have grown, together, spiritually.
HOW TO HEAL CANCER:
HOW TO HEAL CANCER:
- Ask yourself what is bothering you most in your life.
- Be brave and face the truth around this, even if the position seems untenable. (Eg. my husband no longer loves me and that feels unbearable to look at.)
- Assume that, since it feels bad, that you have a misconception (false belief) around it. (Eg. I am unlovable, or I can't live without him, or this is horrible!)
- Imagine that the converse of that misconception or untrue belief is the actual truth. (Eg. I am lovable, I can thrive without him, and this is a great opportunity!)
- Notice how good it feels to believe this positive thing.
- Embrace the positive Truth and apply it in your life through action based on your new opportunity.
- Enjoy your spontaneous healing from cancer.
Health, Peace and Blessings,
Brenda H. Nelson
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